As mentioned, it seems to be a district/school issue based on how it's delivered. For me, that means private school at all costs. If common core is supposed to be a set of standards and will fluctuate from school to school, then what's the benefit? Isn't the "old school" way the same principal? Teach to a certain way and sorry for those that don't "get it"? To me this all sounds like a bunch of hooey! Trying to expand on certain methods is fine but why not also have the options of the old ways? I had and still have multiple ways of doing math (by hand and not just on machines). Does that mean the ways I know and will help my son are wrong? Because there's a push for ONLY the "new way"?
It appears to me you want to combine several things under common core heading as well as compare how it is being implemented in Mass to how it is being implemented in Florida... that is comparing apples and oranges. I am also from Mass, and I speak from having had had kids in both private and public schools. My son (19) did k-12 in only private. My daughter (13) did k-6 in private, and is now in a public charter school (chinese language immersion model).
To understand common core you need to understand the following:
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'Common Core Standards' is simply a list of common standards or specific learning goals that are supposed to be taught.... students by grade 5 no matter where in the country should have been taught curriculum goals XY and Z...how those goals are taught is up to discretion of the school or the district etc.
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'Common Core Curriculum Packages' There are lots of companies that are jumping on the bandwagon and selling packaged curriculums (lesson plans, assignments, tests etc.), Pearson is the biggest at this time. Some of those curriculums are coming under fire because they are reportedly flawed, hastily assempbled, clunky full of mistakes etc.
I do not mind common core standards, I think it is perfectly acceptable to have a set of common standards that students should learn during their schooling. I DO NOT like the packaged curriculums. Any school that does this is in my mind being lazy.
At my daughter's public school they teach the standards and have created their own curriculum that incorperates those standards. They are highly perfoming in math and sciences in all state assessments. You need to find out what your potential schools are doing with common core... are they baking the cake from scratch using the recipie suggested (creating their own curriculums)... or are they opening up a box and pouring it into a pan and calling it homemade (buying a premade curriculum package from Pearson et. al.)?
Be careful with assuming private can do no wrong. Yu have to do your homework there too. I was a private school baby and always figured you get what you pay for right? We sent my son through totally private schools, however we made the decision to swich to a public school for my daughter because of math. We had the same crappy, unqualified and uncertified private school math teacher 2 years in a row (5 and 6th grades) at our very exspensive private school. My daughter went from being a good math student to a poorly performing student who now has a math phobia. I tried working with the school and after a year of private tutoring ( at $40/hr... their solution) the situation was worse. My husband and I made the decision to see if we could get in on the lottery for the charter public school (where he happened to work) and we made it in... pulled her from private and have never looked back. She has made great strides in math, recieved lots of services (all free) and we are soooooooo happy we decided to jump ship. In addition to a strong curriculum in regular subjects, she gets 2 hours of chinese language a day!
Be careful because it is not always getting what you paid for with private. They do not have to have a certified teacher with an advanced degree.... too many of our private school teachers were first year college grads with a shiny new BA/BS in english... or biology... or history.... and no teaching ability or experience.