That all said, I would be curious to find out if others have been told this as well. Not once did a CM or a fellow resort guest stop anyone in our party and tell them they could not smoke.
We checked into POP a few days after the rule change. I had asked for "near a DSA" on my room request. When we checked in, I asked her where the nearest DSA was and she pointed on the map to the little circle right outside our room (a bit away from the rooms, not quite to the parking lot). I asked her if she was sure, because I knew from the maps on the DIS that it wasn't a smoking area.
We used it because were were told to use it. There was no bench or ashtray, but there were also no people and we picked up our butts and flushed them in the toilet.
The path just happened to be next to the route all of the CMs took, and 90% of them said nothing--even smiled and said HI as they passed. One CM said something but then when I explained what the CM checking in had told me, went about her business. Another CM got all in my husband's face and threatened a fine. After that we started moving toward the "real" DSA that was much further away.
All and all it was frustrating because of the mixed information we received. I know how Liljam feels, because I was encouraging my husband to follow the rules, too, yet many others didn't (the pool area at night--forget it!) and the CMs had different views of the rules. This was a year ago, and I would've thought it would be more clear now!
For what it's worth, though, DH and I are five months quit and are going to celebrate our six months quit at WDW without any worries about DSAs and the like!

But a warning--I may just turn into one of those cranky x-smokers because now the smell makes me slightly ill-so stay to your DSAs!