pookybean
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She didn't make volleyball but was offered a position as team manager, which is kind of a "best of the players who got cut" position - she'll practice and attend games with the team but won't play unless someone quits the team or is removed - and so far she's really taken that in stride. She knew it was going to be tough to make the team, coming from a middle school that barely had sports while most of the other girls either played for the very good team at the public middle or in private leagues, but since her main interest in sports is qualifying for a PE exemption rather than any true passion for the game and this counts towards that, she's content to practice and try again next year. So that's one of my first worries put to rest; I was afraid if she didn't make the team, she'd be discouraged and drop sports entirely.
My daughter did color guard all through middle school (whatever that counts for with school closing for covid etc). She LOVED it and really worked hard at it. She went to one clinic for the high school and the coach told me she "doesnt see a place for her in guard". Refused to think of any way she could practice and participate but not compete. There isnt even cuts for this team! Im sure there was something behind the scenes going on that we arent aware of but my daughter is still devastated. She said she is going to try out for something in the drama club. I hope she finds a place somewhere.
Im glad your daughters outcome was better than mine. If they want to participate they should be allowed, even if its just at practice.