scraptoons said:My ds was quiet during the procedure, that was to point out that he did not have any pain what so ever.
Or maybe he was in shock.
scraptoons said:My ds was quiet during the procedure, that was to point out that he did not have any pain what so ever.
chobie said:They asked for them NOT to be circumcized? Shouldn't be the other way around and they would have to ask for this procedure to be done? Does this OB group recommend it or assume it will be done? What helped me to make the decision not to cut my son was my OB practice did not take a stance either way but did say it was basically a cosmetic procedure. Had they made it seem that it was the norm and that not having him cut would be some bizarre (or perhaps even wrong) choice to make, I might not have made the choice I did.
No it is not automatic or assumed. The doc asked if they want it done. The parent says yes or no. The OB group does not take a stance either way. In our State the OB's do the circ's. Most OB's don't like doing them (not for any philosophical reason, it's just not how they want to spend their time) so they definitely wouldn't be pushing them.Galahad said:Sigh!No it is not automatic or assumed. The doc asked if they want it done. The parent says yes or no. The OB group does not take a stance either way. In our State the OB's do the circ's. Most OB's don't like doing them (not for any philosophical reason, it's just not how they want to spend their time) so they definitely wouldn't be pushing them.[/QUOTE
No need for a. They way you worded that made it seem like circumcizing was the routine and parents had to opt out of that. Patients, especially pregnant ones tend to take doctors recommendations very seriously and often fear that any questioning of routines and procedures will make them seem like a bad parent. Many women, including myself, can attest to having felt bullied into a procedure they did not want while pregnant. They way you wrote that parents asked not to have it done made me wonder if the OBs at that practice assumed that everyone would have it done and parents had to go out of their way to not have it done.
sskem96 said:I am a nursery nurse. Our circumcision rate of white males is nearly 100%. I can only remember 1 couple cauc. couple in the last 3 years that has not consented to the procedure, and we have 1,500 births/year. Maybe the difference has to do with what area of the country you live in.
At our hospital, hispanics are rarely circ'd, AA are circ'd probably 50-75% of the time, and Asian Indians are rarely circ'd, although a few more of them are starting to get it done now.
I have NEVER seen a baby in shock during the procedure. They cry when we first put them on the board and we put velcro straps on their arms and legs. I put on a glove, dip my finger in sugar water, and let them suck on it. Our hospital also requires the Dr. to use anesthetic, and most use a small shot of lidocaine. After that, 99% of the time, the child is completely calm. Those that do cry are usually the ones who have been crabby anyway, usually just because mom doesn't have any milk yet. The procedure is generally done on the day the baby is going home.
Here's a tip: Before you have your son circ'd, ask moms of other boys who did their sons' and how it turned out. Just because you love your OB or you Pediatrician, doesn't mean they do pretty circs! Some take off way too much, others not enough. It's no fun to have it repaired later!
Tinijocaro said:I'm probably the reason your hospital's rate is only NEARLY 100%. I lived in Bloomington, IL when I had my first son and the pressure to circumcise by all doctors and nurses was unbelievable. The nurses kept asking me-"Are you sure you don't want to get him done? It prevents lots of diseases and he won't feel so alone in the locker room" I knew that stuff to be absolute drivel so I ignored it. My Dr was Dr Lin at St. Joe's. We lived in an apt. right near the hospital, could've walked there.
I used to teach orchestra at Bloomington Junior High back in '93-'95!
BuckNaked said:Here's a novel approach - how about everyone doing what is right for their own family and stop judging the other side.

I ,personally, am talking bout RIC and not a Bris..scraptoons said:"Adult only, no infant consentment" arguments do not stand against the Jewish laws, which requires infant circumcism. Their faith includes this procedure. You can go read Leviticus and some other Old Testament books to further understand. I'm not Jewish, I'm just defending them.
My DS cried when his diaper was removed.
But he was quiet during the procedure.
An adult however, would feel it.
I had my oldest son crced for that reason..He got an infection and It was horrible..My younger son was not circed and it has never been a problemchobie said:And the truth is that most people get it done because its just always been done and everybody does it. My son was born in the Seattle area where the rate is closer to 50% for uncirced.
becka said:Brenda, Brenda....you have been here long enough to know we can't allow such a thing here on the DIS!!! Tsk! Tsk!![]()

Tinijocaro said:Well, this may or may not be true, I guess we'll never know, but as for penile cancer, it's still a rare disease for all men, so I'm not going to spend much time worrying about it.
sskem96 said:I am a nursery nurse. Our circumcision rate of white males is nearly 100%. I can only remember 1 couple cauc. couple in the last 3 years that has not consented to the procedure, and we have 1,500 births/year. Maybe the difference has to do with what area of the country you live in.
At our hospital, hispanics are rarely circ'd, AA are circ'd probably 50-75% of the time, and Asian Indians are rarely circ'd, although a few more of them are starting to get it done now.
I have NEVER seen a baby in shock during the procedure. They cry when we first put them on the board and we put velcro straps on their arms and legs. I put on a glove, dip my finger in sugar water, and let them suck on it. Our hospital also requires the Dr. to use anesthetic, and most use a small shot of lidocaine. After that, 99% of the time, the child is completely calm. Those that do cry are usually the ones who have been crabby anyway, usually just because mom doesn't have any milk yet. The procedure is generally done on the day the baby is going home.
Here's a tip: Before you have your son circ'd, ask moms of other boys who did their sons' and how it turned out. Just because you love your OB or you Pediatrician, doesn't mean they do pretty circs! Some take off way too much, others not enough. It's no fun to have it repaired later!
MickeyMouseGal said:I agree. True traumatic 'shock' in an infant is a life threatening condition that requires immediate medical attention. If these babies were truly in 'shock', they wouldn't be going home the same day.
MickeyMouseGal said:Basically, my point is, my decision to circumcise my child is an informed decision made by me, my husband and our doctor. It is the right decision for me, regardless of anyone else's opinion.