Ok, I am still new to the disboards, and have never done a PTR, but I love reading others, so just help me out getting this started. I am a crazy frugal planner, and I would love input about issues specific to my trip, so I think I need a place to put everything. This will be my second trip to WDW. I think I read 3 books and joined 2 sites for that one and am only increasing that this time around due to the time of year and amount of people going.
I guess I should do the generic introductions first.
My DH, Kevin:

He's originally from upstate NY, a 33yr old environmental engineer workaholic and trusts every bit of my planning and puts up with me asking for his input on everything (because I can never do enough research).
Kiddos:

DS Charlie is 5 and will just have turned 6 in December when we go, so hopefully I remember to get him a birthday button. He just started school and loves it. We took him to WDW in Oct 2007 (right before he turned 3) and he enjoyed himself, but we really took it easy. I'm hoping he'll do a few more bigger attractions this time (with me).
DD Claire is 2 (first trip!) and is really getting into the princesses. I've been using them to try to push along the potty training, but it's just ending up with her still in diapers and loving princesses. She takes great afternoon naps, which we'll plan around when we can, but I think we'll have some issues getting her to fall asleep in the stroller when we don't leave the parks.
Me:
A 32yr old computer programmer from MN (where we live now), which means I can always have a dis/wdw window open just about every minute of the day. I'm honestly not that much of a fanatic (only been that once in 2007), but I am a researcher and perfectionist and also frugal (so I have to find the best deals and most efficient touring plans). My brother and his family have gone to WDW several times now, so I get their books and always ask them questions as to how things went when their youngest was my son's age. I also have a SIL who is much more of a fanatic.
The other 11 people that will join us for half of our trip:
Family from TX: Mom, Dad, nanny (20ish), 4 girls - 8, 5, and the twins will be 3 in Nov. The Mom is the SIL who is a fanatic. If they went to WDW for 6 days, they would not go more than 24 hours without visiting MK. And they would stay in the parks from about 10am until closing. They've probably been 5 or 6 times, most recently in Oct of 09.
Family from NC: Dad, girl 12, boy 7. Dad works for Toyota on the NASCAR circuit, so we planned this time of year because it is the only time he has off. Luckily, they are pretty lax about planning and costs and are leaving it all up to the rest of us. I think they may have been once a few years ago.
Grandma: Mother of each of the three dads in the group, lives in upstate NY. This is our group gift to her for Christmas. We are paying for everything for her (except souvenirs) and are setting up many group meals, etc so she can enjoy all her kids & grandkids in one place at one time. She took her boys when they were young once, I think, and also attended the son from NC's wedding there about 8 years ago.
I will start discussing the actual trip next post.
When & Where
ADRs so far
Schedule plan
Day 1 & 2 plan
Day 3 & 4 plan
Day 5 & 6 plan
Day 1 TR
Day 2 (pt 1)TR
Day 2 (pt 2)TR
Day 3 TR