Before we moved down here, the Christmas traditions were mostly with my wife's family, and her family, and her family...
My wife has a huge extended family and every Christmas Eve had to be spend at her father's, Christmas morning at her sister's, and Christmas dinner (all afternoon and into the evening) at whichever sister "had Christmas." My family, which is much smaller, got the "see them sometime over the holidays" treatment. I got to where I dreaded Christmas and the "traditions."
Now it's just the two of us and if some family wants to come visit they are welcome. Her family doesn't because they are still hung up on their "tradition" of chaos and overcrowding. Sometimes my one daughter and granddaughter come down and I'm happy when that happens. The only tradition I insist on is that we have a nice, quiet turkey dinner. If nobody comes down for Christmas I do like to go to Epcot for the day.
I do think traditions are great, but sometimes they can get a little overbearing, if not very overbearing.