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[funnygarcia]

The AC in the tent pic was freaking hilarious! It's screaming out for some "you know you're a redneck when..." comment

I don't do well in the heat (or maybe it's just the humidity?) so hats off and fans blowing for braving the heat.

Cute suitcase pix! And go you for playing the piano in Innoventions! Keep it up !

 

[kelmac284]

Morning and happy Wednesday! Man this week is flying when Monday is a holiday!!

Rochelle I am so glad you were able to have fun for your birthday at DL and props on performing at innoventions!! LOVE the two bags. Esp the mickey suitcase!! Too cute!!

I am off to work today. Hopefully it isn't too ugly. Haven't been there since last week so it can be bad when you are gone for several days but hopefully not! Since I have the girls I am hoping to use that as an excuse to not stay long and just get in there, get my work done and leave! I don't want to drag it out! Last night I felt awful but Shane made it home in time JUST to turn around and go back out and take Katy to swim. I told him he didn't have to but he hates for them to miss and Katy wanted to go but Shelby was already in her pj's and she is not as into it as Katy is so just Katy went. I had dinner in the oven anyway so she and I stayed home. We watched Shutter Island and it was pretty strange. I still don't know if I actually "get it". It was pretty confusing but ok. If we get home at a decent hour from work we will watch when in rome and then Day Breakers tonight after swim.

I will be honest I can't wait for swim to be over! About this point it gets REAL old going every night and trying to get dinner cooked by 4:30 or 5 and on and on. Plus the ALL day meets esp when it gets really hot get old and the worst is yet to come with champs. Don't get me wrong I love to watch the girls compete but it is the LONG days in between that are grueling. We love it but by the end I think everyone is ready for it to be over

We have another girl scout event tomorrow night on the schedule but as usual I have heard nothing and to be honest unless it is AFTER swim shane prob won't let them go cuz they have missed so much practice already. It is just going to dairy queen to get blizzards so if that is the case we may just go on our own so the girls don't feel like that got cheated. We shall see.

Then next week they have a skate day which should be fun if it still happens. We haven't been skating in a LONG time and I know the girls are really looking forward to that.

Anyway that's bout it for me. Hope everyone has a good day and keeps cool.

Take care and talk soon.

 

[wendypooh22]

I am loving the AC in the tent.. We have seen this quite a few times while camping at the river...

I took the boys to see TS3 last night and OMG I loved it!! I must admit, I did get teary eyed at the end. It was just so darn touching!

I am working from home today cuz my truck is having issues and needs to go to the shop, so I am happily working away in shorts and a tank top.

I gotta do some laundry and get a few things together for our big DLR vacation on Monday

 

[MotoXPrincess99]

Good Morning!

 

[eatmypixiedust]

Hi- thank you for the comments on the Mickey suitcase and for the Innoventions thing. It wasn't easy for me to do and I'm still surprised I did that.

I've been struggling these past couple of days. It's been a roller coaster of emotions. On top of that I am feeling kinda stressed out because I need to fix my car on Friday. I think the front brake rotors are starting to get warped and I know my brake pads are good but if they need to change the rotors, then they would have to change the brake pads. Ughhhh... very frustrating.

Anyways, basically my ex has "hooked up" in a sense with another girl and it is the worst feeling in the world. The thing is, he lies to her and is too much of a little boy to actually man up and just tell her that he doesn't want her. I feel sorry for her because she has no idea what she is in for and she foolishly keeps trying to talk to him, even though he is kinda ignoring her.

One of my friends is on vacation but when she gets back, she and some other friends of mine said they would like to take me out for a belated b-day celebration. I talked to one of my close friends yesterday on the phone. She said that she understands what I'm going through and that she wishes there was some way I could just erase all feelings for him but that I am a human being, I am capable of feeling emotions and I am grieving. It upsets me that he is not and that he could care less. I've been reading a book on healing from emotional abuse. It just says to think of a 6 month test....if you had only 6 months to live, would you really want to spend it being abused and spend the remainder of your life with someone who makes you cry, depressed and angry, hurt and worthless all the time?

Again, I have all the logic in my head but it's taking a lot of time for my hear to follow....I hate going through this.

 

[funnygarcia]

I wish we could wave a magic wand and make all the fears, loneliness and sad days disappear.

Did a quick run for doubles.. got pissed off when the cashier started screwing with my order. The store keeps changing the rules on doubling, very frustrating and makes it really hard to get a deal without a lot of effort to figure out the best scenario. Harder for the cashiers to keep it all straight and they fear getting fired if they screw up an order.

The everyday prices are bad at this store and some locations have limited stock on the good deals. If they are going to be that picky butt, then I won't bother shopping there. I had stopped once before because the prices were so terrible but I got lured back in when the prices and coupons matched nicely.

Anyway, sis shared her recent visit to my parent's house, glad we couldn't go because there was an ugly scene when my mom flipped out on my dn (with autism). He has no impulse control, a closed door means nothing to him. He went exploring in a spare bedroom closet where my mom had stored some extra shot gun shells.

umm, why there anyway?? I swear my mom has lost her mind, grandkids visit all the time. Lock it up -- duh!

DN got caught lining up the shells in neat little rows on the floor, happily sorting by color and size in typical autism fashion.

Grandma lost it and screamed at dn "if you ever do that again I'm going to beat you!" and then nagged my sis that the younger kids know better to leave it alone why can't he? (well gee Mom, you do realize he's not like other kids right??)

My mom believes dn knows exactly what he is doing is naughty and sis gives him too much leeway by not punishing him. Well yeah, he might know in some deep corner of his brain that it's not okay.. but that won't stop him because he doesn't have the control to stop himself. It wasn't that long ago he would run after cars in the street because he was fascinated by the wheels turning round n round. He knew being in the street would mean a time out, scolding and freaked out parents, but that still didn't deter him from his interest. Right now, like any 9 yr old, his current interest is play fighting, trying out swear words and guns.

My own boys know that he can't help himself and it's our job to provide a safe environment.

Sigh.... oh well, what can ya do but tell her yet again sorry and btw he has autism. Could you help by locking up anything that you don't want him to touch?

 

[Funball]

Hi- thank you for the comments on the Mickey suitcase and for the Innoventions thing. It wasn't easy for me to do and I'm still surprised I did that.

I've been struggling these past couple of days. It's been a roller coaster of emotions. On top of that I am feeling kinda stressed out because I need to fix my car on Friday. I think the front brake rotors are starting to get warped and I know my brake pads are good but if they need to change the rotors, then they would have to change the brake pads. Ughhhh... very frustrating.

Anyways, basically my ex has "hooked up" in a sense with another girl and it is the worst feeling in the world. The thing is, he lies to her and is too much of a little boy to actually man up and just tell her that he doesn't want her. I feel sorry for her because she has no idea what she is in for and she foolishly keeps trying to talk to him, even though he is kinda ignoring her.

One of my friends is on vacation but when she gets back, she and some other friends of mine said they would like to take me out for a belated b-day celebration. I talked to one of my close friends yesterday on the phone. She said that she understands what I'm going through and that she wishes there was some way I could just erase all feelings for him but that I am a human being, I am capable of feeling emotions and I am grieving. It upsets me that he is not and that he could care less. I've been reading a book on healing from emotional abuse. It just says to think of a 6 month test....if you had only 6 months to live, would you really want to spend it being abused and spend the remainder of your life with someone who makes you cry, depressed and angry, hurt and worthless all the time?

Again, I have all the logic in my head but it's taking a lot of time for my hear to follow....I hate going through this.

rochelle if you could warn her and help her.. what would you be accomplishing in your own life?

 

[Funball]

I wish we could wave a magic wand and make all the fears, loneliness and sad days disappear.

Did a quick run for doubles.. got pissed off when the cashier started screwing with my order. The store keeps changing the rules on doubling, very frustrating and makes it really hard to get a deal without a lot of effort to figure out the best scenario. Harder for the cashiers to keep it all straight and they fear getting fired if they screw up an order.

The everyday prices are bad at this store and some locations have limited stock on the good deals. If they are going to be that picky butt, then I won't bother shopping there. I had stopped once before because the prices were so terrible but I got lured back in when the prices and coupons matched nicely.

Anyway, sis shared her recent visit to my parent's house, glad we couldn't go because there was an ugly scene when my mom flipped out on my dn (with autism). He has no impulse control, a closed door means nothing to him. He went exploring in a spare bedroom closet where my mom had stored some extra shot gun shells.

umm, why there anyway?? I swear my mom has lost her mind, grandkids visit all the time. Lock it up -- duh!

DN got caught lining up the shells in neat little rows on the floor, happily sorting by color and size in typical autism fashion.

Grandma lost it and screamed at dn "if you ever do that again I'm going to beat you!" and then nagged my sis that the younger kids know better to leave it alone why can't he? (well gee Mom, you do realize he's not like other kids right??)

My mom believes dn knows exactly what he is doing is naughty and sis gives him too much leeway by not punishing him. Well yeah, he might know in some deep corner of his brain that it's not okay.. but that won't stop him because he doesn't have the control to stop himself. It wasn't that long ago he would run after cars in the street because he was fascinated by the wheels turning round n round. He knew being in the street would mean a time out, scolding and freaked out parents, but that still didn't deter him from his interest. Right now, like any 9 yr old, his current interest is play fighting, trying out swear words and guns.

My own boys know that he can't help himself and it's our job to provide a safe environment.

Sigh.... oh well, what can ya do but tell her yet again sorry and btw he has autism. Could you help by locking up anything that you don't want him to touch?

ooo FG i am soo sorry for that! yep i know about the autism..remember i a have aspergers syndrom.. its' on the lower end of autims..but yet is autism.. and the making things neat and stuff that is what we do... its just something that we feel we need to do , its' also like collecting.. autistic's are very into collecting,, info etc.. .. so i am sooo sorry that it happend to your DN, i hope he is too hurt by it

 

[eatmypixiedust]

rochelle if you could warn her and help her.. what would you be accomplishing in your own life?

I didn't mention that at all in my post

 

[Funball]

I didn't mention that at all in my post

but if YOU could warn her and or help her would you? there stated my questiob better

 

[funnygarcia]

My boys are odd ducks for the things they notice as I use the computer.. earlier Noah asked "what's with the domo and that flashing" and now Justin says "oooo the flashy and chomp chomp domo dude"




As for my dn.. I'm guessing he was just fine from his grandma spazz moment. It's my sis that was more hurt by our mother's accusation that she is not a good mother. In a perfect world he would be watched every minute.. but life is not perfect and both sis and her dh were busy at the time it occurred.

That was the other thing that pissed off my sis.. invited to visit at the lake but my mom sat it out and sis did ALL the cooking, future SIL didn't help either... very odd and makes me wonder what is up with my mom as she usually is the one in charge. It's not like her to be too tired for entertaining.. frazzled maybe.. but part of the action, willing to divide and conquer the various chores (grilling hamburgers, hot dogs).

All the more reason to sell, move somewhere smaller with a good property manager for the outdoor chores (snow removal, mowing, etc).

 

[XTinabell]

but if YOU could warn her and or help her would you? there stated my questiob better

I am so confused I think pixters point was just that she wishes everyone could see what a douche bag the ex is but he seems to charm his way around fooling ppl including this girl. I don't think she's planning or wishing to actually warn anybody.

Just a drive by hi from me ladies. I have had so much going on I keep double booking myself, remedying the problem and then forgetting and re double booking myself. I'm going insane.

This weekend I double booked myself again but I think I can make it work. I'll go to the first event in the early afternoon, leave early and be a little late for the other event. I think that's better than cancelling one event right?

And where is the summer heat?

 

[eatmypixiedust]

Christina, that is how I feel and I know that there are a lot of women who feel the same way I do. It's just part of all the narcissistic abuse: they cause the person to feel confused and I was told that it is quite common to want to warn others. It is just a feeling I have and you are right, it didn't mean I wanted to actually warn the person.


I'm sorry to hear you double booked yourself. I hope you don't get too overwhelmed with too much How is your new place btw?

 

[kelmac284]

Morning and happy Thursday!

Rochelle I get ya! And I TOTALLY see where you are coming from. 13 years is a LONG time and your head is probably telling you one thing (dump this guy and don't look back) but your heart is telling you something totally different. As I had mentioned before there are 5 distinct phases of grieving and we grieve a relationship just as much as losing someone. Esp one as long as yours. No one can tell you how long each phase is going to take and as I mentioned awhile back one of the biggest things we do is remember the "good" things esp when we are lonely. No matter HOW much of a jerk and a scumbag that person might be and no matter HOW much we KNOW this it is so easy when one is lonely and hurting to rationalize and try to find the "good" and try to find a reason to go back because we ARE hurting and don't WANT to hurt anymore.

So it is a natural defense mechanism to try and take the hurt away in any way possible.

I was MISERABLE with my ex the ENTIRE 8 years we were married but wouldn't you know the minute he actually dumped ME (eventhough I tried to dump him SEVERAL) times then all I wanted was him back. I think what I REALLY wanted was for him to be someone in reality he was NEVER going to be and that is what I wanted our entire marriage. He said some terribly cruel and hurtful things to me on the way out like he hadn't loved me in 5 of the 8 years we were married and never wanted kids yet turned around and had FOUR of them with his 2nd wife and on and on! I truly feel like being a mom is the one thing I am REALLY good at and I feel like if he would have only given me a chance he would have SEEN that but it was just NOT meant to be. He did me the biggest favor and someday you will see this too!

For me I just thrust myself into LOTS of activities and I actually started casually seeking out other people. Just casual dates but ANYTHING to get my mind off the ex. It helped and it REALLY boosted my self esteem.

I am not going to tell you what is best for you but whatever works for YOU, only you know! ((hugs)) and don't worry about your feelings. They are ALL normal!

As for us we went in to work and it wasn't TOO bad yesterday although we had another ugly deal to mess with which made it stressful. We had an escrow that closed and we didn't make much on it to begin with and then AFTER the fact they came up with an oustanding utility bill for over 1000 bucks and the total commission was only 2000 and the office had to pay it. We have been in the red forever and so I was NOT thrilled! This was the escrow company's mistake but my mom just always takes it and that is where her and I bump heads. She just lets SO many people take advantage but whatever! Anyway then the girls and I came home and hung out till swim and last night we watched our last two movies.

Day Breakers was REALLY gross! Didn't like it too much. I don't like really gorey stuff. But When in Rome was cute. It got bad reviews but we liked it.

We were supposed to go to morning swim this morning but everyone has been so tired with everything going on that we slept in for a change. Later on we have to run out and run a loop so it was nice to not have to go out TWICE! I have to go to the post office, the pharmacy and return the movies.

Oh and yesterday I got a notice that our dishwasher was recalled and it is pretty scary cuz they said it could catch fire and that is EXACTLY what happened to a family on our swim team last year. Their dishwasher caught fire and burned their entire house to the ground while we were at a meet!!! So now I am nervous till it gets fixed. The repair guy is coming on Monday. I seem to remember though that they got THEIR's fixed as well but it STILL caught fire. I almost wish we could just buy a new one but that is not going to happen!

I just make sure we NEVER run it when we aren't home. That was their mistake!!

Anyway after practice tonight we ARE having the Girl Scout thing at DQ so we are going over there for a bit for a cone and then that's bout it for today.

Tomorrow it is BACK to work and then Saturday is our last reg meet!

I sure hope Katy has a better day then our last meet!!

I am really proud of her for probably making meet of champs but I will be honest I almost wish that we were going to be done after the 17th cuz I am SOOO ready LOL.

But we shall see! I know she will probably make it for the relays but unless she gets on her game she may NOT make it in an indiv event. There is some REALLY fast swimmers so we shall see!

Anyway that's it for me. Have a great day everyone!

 

[eatmypixiedust]

Thanks Kelly You and Christina are right on the money. I went to therapy yesterday and was given some things to read that contain small questions and quizzes. I read and answered some of them but didn't finish it yet. It's just some helpful info to help myself find out who I am, what I like, etc. and talks about how I became someone I wasn't just to please my ex (I became who he wanted me to be and lost myself completely).

I am thinking of taking some classes to get my BA. I hated school in the past but I believe I would really like it now. I like to learn new things and it would keep my mind busy, so I am looking into that. Plus, I want a BA for MYSELF and I feel it will benefit me with finding another job. The hip hop class is only 1 day a week and is almost over. I think if it were 2-3 times a week, that would have been a lot better for myself personally.

Yesterday I was running errands and stopped at a store to get something. The cashier was really friendly and talking to me and I mentioned that I had just gotten out of a long-term bad relationship. She told me: "You are a strong woman for leaving. That took a lot of courage and you should be proud of yourself!" She said: "I just read this one book and it may help you. You could check it out and see if it will help." So she wrote down the title and the author for me on a piece of paper. My friends have been telling me I'm courageous for leaving too and I just haven't felt it yet but I hope I will soon....

 

[XTinabell]

Christina, that is how I feel and I know that there are a lot of women who feel the same way I do. It's just part of all the narcissistic abuse: they cause the person to feel confused and I was told that it is quite common to want to warn others. It is just a feeling I have and you are right, it didn't mean I wanted to actually warn the person.


I'm sorry to hear you double booked yourself. I hope you don't get too overwhelmed with too much How is your new place btw?

I love my new place. I have a lovely balcony that is a little tucked away so I can spy on everyone without them knowing. It's great fun. I put on a dress today and I'm going to sit on my balcony and read a book in a few minutes. It's so peaceful being up here and outside.

Morning and happy Thursday!

Rochelle I get ya! And I TOTALLY see where you are coming from. 13 years is a LONG time and your head is probably telling you one thing (dump this guy and don't look back) but your heart is telling you something totally different. As I had mentioned before there are 5 distinct phases of grieving and we grieve a relationship just as much as losing someone. Esp one as long as yours. No one can tell you how long each phase is going to take and as I mentioned awhile back one of the biggest things we do is remember the "good" things esp when we are lonely. No matter HOW much of a jerk and a scumbag that person might be and no matter HOW much we KNOW this it is so easy when one is lonely and hurting to rationalize and try to find the "good" and try to find a reason to go back because we ARE hurting and don't WANT to hurt anymore.

So it is a natural defense mechanism to try and take the hurt away in any way possible.

I was MISERABLE with my ex the ENTIRE 8 years we were married but wouldn't you know the minute he actually dumped ME (eventhough I tried to dump him SEVERAL) times then all I wanted was him back. I think what I REALLY wanted was for him to be someone in reality he was NEVER going to be and that is what I wanted our entire marriage. He said some terribly cruel and hurtful things to me on the way out like he hadn't loved me in 5 of the 8 years we were married and never wanted kids yet turned around and had FOUR of them with his 2nd wife and on and on! I truly feel like being a mom is the one thing I am REALLY good at and I feel like if he would have only given me a chance he would have SEEN that but it was just NOT meant to be. He did me the biggest favor and someday you will see this too!

For me I just thrust myself into LOTS of activities and I actually started casually seeking out other people. Just casual dates but ANYTHING to get my mind off the ex. It helped and it REALLY boosted my self esteem.

I am not going to tell you what is best for you but whatever works for YOU, only you know! ((hugs)) and don't worry about your feelings. They are ALL normal!

As for us we went in to work and it wasn't TOO bad yesterday although we had another ugly deal to mess with which made it stressful. We had an escrow that closed and we didn't make much on it to begin with and then AFTER the fact they came up with an oustanding utility bill for over 1000 bucks and the total commission was only 2000 and the office had to pay it. We have been in the red forever and so I was NOT thrilled! This was the escrow company's mistake but my mom just always takes it and that is where her and I bump heads. She just lets SO many people take advantage but whatever! Anyway then the girls and I came home and hung out till swim and last night we watched our last two movies.

Day Breakers was REALLY gross! Didn't like it too much. I don't like really gorey stuff. But When in Rome was cute. It got bad reviews but we liked it.

We were supposed to go to morning swim this morning but everyone has been so tired with everything going on that we slept in for a change. Later on we have to run out and run a loop so it was nice to not have to go out TWICE! I have to go to the post office, the pharmacy and return the movies.

Oh and yesterday I got a notice that our dishwasher was recalled and it is pretty scary cuz they said it could catch fire and that is EXACTLY what happened to a family on our swim team last year. Their dishwasher caught fire and burned their entire house to the ground while we were at a meet!!! So now I am nervous till it gets fixed. The repair guy is coming on Monday. I seem to remember though that they got THEIR's fixed as well but it STILL caught fire. I almost wish we could just buy a new one but that is not going to happen!

I just make sure we NEVER run it when we aren't home. That was their mistake!!

Anyway after practice tonight we ARE having the Girl Scout thing at DQ so we are going over there for a bit for a cone and then that's bout it for today.

Tomorrow it is BACK to work and then Saturday is our last reg meet!

I sure hope Katy has a better day then our last meet!!

I am really proud of her for probably making meet of champs but I will be honest I almost wish that we were going to be done after the 17th cuz I am SOOO ready LOL.

But we shall see! I know she will probably make it for the relays but unless she gets on her game she may NOT make it in an indiv event. There is some REALLY fast swimmers so we shall see!

Anyway that's it for me. Have a great day everyone!

Geesh, that's scary about your dishwasher. I leave mine running all the time when I run out. I guess I probably shouldn't do that. I should probably get a fire extinguisher for the house, I'm always paranoid that my drier is going to start on fire. I am always checking on it when I run a load and make a plan for if it's on fire when I check on it

Thanks Kelly You and Christina are right on the money. I went to therapy yesterday and was given some things to read that contain small questions and quizzes. I read and answered some of them but didn't finish it yet. It's just some helpful info to help myself find out who I am, what I like, etc. and talks about how I became someone I wasn't just to please my ex (I became who he wanted me to be and lost myself completely).

I am thinking of taking some classes to get my BA. I hated school in the past but I believe I would really like it now. I like to learn new things and it would keep my mind busy, so I am looking into that. Plus, I want a BA for MYSELF and I feel it will benefit me with finding another job. The hip hop class is only 1 day a week and is almost over. I think if it were 2-3 times a week, that would have been a lot better for myself personally.

Yesterday I was running errands and stopped at a store to get something. The cashier was really friendly and talking to me and I mentioned that I had just gotten out of a long-term bad relationship. She told me: "You are a strong woman for leaving. That took a lot of courage and you should be proud of yourself!" She said: "I just read this one book and it may help you. You could check it out and see if it will help." So she wrote down the title and the author for me on a piece of paper. My friends have been telling me I'm courageous for leaving too and I just haven't felt it yet but I hope I will soon....

You are courageous, and you just need to start telling yourself that every day. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're courageous and strong and you did the right thing by getting out of that relationship. Tell yourself everyday, and you'll soon start to see that it's the truth.

 

[funnygarcia]

Christina...You lucky duck! I miss having a balcony or a little patio to just hang out. We're pretty much set to stay here for the next four years (until both boys are done with high school). Our next place MUST have a balcony or patio, dishwasher and NO stairs! I keep looking online to see what's out there.. drives hubby crazy- we are not moving! I know I know.. but let a girl dream would ya!

Oh boy. Dealing with social security can make a person looney! Had an appt and the person called to ask what it was for .. someone coded it wrong as a "general question".. uhh no it's reinstatement of benefits.

So she cancelled it, talked to hubby and at first told us some scary news (need to reapply in September). She went to investigate how the deferred pay status effected benefits, called back and now it seems he just needs to fill in a form and will reinstate quickly (based on no income earned since first week of June). it's still all confusing, hopefully ti will work okay and we won't have the horrible gap in income.

 

[eatmypixiedust]

Kelly- I am not into gorey films either. I can't stand it and I remember walking out of the theatre when I saw Kill Bill. It was just too much for me. My family isn't into horror and gorey films at all. I think it's because we have vivid imaginations.

I've seen gorey stuff like Ninja Assassin was pretty gross and some other films.


Christina- I'm glad that you enjoy your new place That's nice that you have a patio to just chill and relax on


Bernice- I hope everything works out That sounds like a real headache and pain. I hope they straighten everything out for you and your DH.

 

[Funball]

I am so confused I think pixters point was just that she wishes everyone could see what a douche bag the ex is but he seems to charm his way around fooling ppl including this girl. I don't think she's planning or wishing to actually warn anybody.

Just a drive by hi from me ladies. I have had so much going on I keep double booking myself, remedying the problem and then forgetting and re double booking myself. I'm going insane.

This weekend I double booked myself again but I think I can make it work. I'll go to the first event in the early afternoon, leave early and be a little late for the other event. I think that's better than cancelling one event right?


And where is the summer heat?

all in fairness she did tell me this on monday on the phone her self tat if she could help or warn the new girl, and iw as refering to that, cause as i read her post yesterday that is what made me think of it.... maybe she forgot.. its cool though...
glad the therapy is working for ya pixie!

Hmm i still have someone's bday card..... and this isn;t just an ordernary card , i orderd this online , so it's pretty freakin special because turning 30 is special. !

 

[eatmypixiedust]

all in fairness she did tell me this on monday on the phone her self tat if she could help or warn the new girl, and iw as refering to that, cause as i read her post yesterday that is what made me think of it.... maybe she forgot.. its cool though...
glad the therapy is working for ya pixie!

I had no clue you were referring to a phone conversation. I thought you were talking about a post of mine. I just mentioned on the phone that I was going through a lot and that's why I hadn't posted on the DIS as much lately. I also mentioned that I have a mix of emotions and one of them was wanting to warn whoever my ex was with because no one deserves to go through that. I also mentioned that it would never happen and that even if I could, they probably wouldn't believe me anyways.

I wasn't saying I actually was going to go and try to somehow warn whoever my ex is with. Bottom line: I don't wish what I went through upon anyone.