I've compiled a helpful tally for you so far:
CP:13
CM:9
1900PF: 6
Tusker: 5
Akershus: 3
Garden Grill:3
H&V: 3
'Ohana @brkfst: 3
CRT:2
Cape May:1
LTT (discontinued as a character meal): 1
against:
CRT: 3
CP: 2
Here's my take:
CRT is fun to do once, but the food isn't that great, and the character interaction (CI) wasn't the best either - though it does cover many princess at once. It is cool to say you've done it once. Also, this one is difficult to get, so there's the hassle.
CM has pretty plain food in general, great CI, great line-up of characters. I have to say while this was never my favorite food, the last time we went there in September, the food was really bad. Add to that in March we stayed at CR, and we could hear the music every a.m. at 7: from INSIDE our room! It will be a while before I can go back.
1900PF: can be VERY noisy, but the food was excellent, the CI was fun (How much fun would it be to get to play an evil Stepsister and say rude things to guests!)
GGrill: is not open for lunch anymore, and recently the menu may have also changed a bit.
CP: the building an location are great. The CI last year was really minimal. It used to be good, but has gone seriosuly downhill. Maybe it has improved since then, but it felt really rushed. Teh location is very easy, and the dining in MK in general is very limited. If youa re looking for TS in MK, this is one of thebetter option, which is one reason it's so popular. Also, the location is very convenient: MK is often open late, so that's popular area to be in at night. It's also a good reason why this meal will always be rushed - Disney has bodies to feed. Stillthe building is very pretty. It's pretty both inthe a.m. and the p.m.
As another poster said, if you are paying oop, and choose breakfast (so long as you aren't going during a holiday surcharge period), this can be a 'budget' meal. If you pick a late breakfast - you won't need lunch that day - so one meal can replace two QS meals.
The other forgotten Character Meal that can be good is the one at the Swan. There is only a few characters, and it is only offered certain days, but the last timewe went, I think it was Tigger - late breakfast - we had the place to ourselves and it was the ONLY time I've ever seen Tigger get to REALLY be Tigger. Lots of fun - and we didn't even have kids with us that time! The food was good too.
Preference also depends on how adventurous you are with your food tastes. Dining reviews are always HIGHLY subjective. (as I'witnessed onthe DIS.)
One last plug: There are some really great dining opportunities that are not character involved. Character meals are fun, but usually not quiet or relaxed. There are lots of dining places that although the food might not be *****, the atmosphere is really cool. The new T-Rex is one example. WE didn't dine there, but the atmosphere was REALLY unique. The 50's place at HS, though not characters, is unlike dining any place else in the world: the staff are the 'characters,' if you will. Some servers play the part better than others, as do some guests. These are just a few.