Ok my 13yr old is on the verge of being kicked out of school for being disruptive, gets booted from class atleast 1 day per week. Grounding him not let him test for a TaeKwonDon belt has not worked. I'm thinking of leaving him with my mom taking my 4yr instead. Will I have to pay crazy penalties with Disney if I change my package from 13yr boy to a 4yr boy?