Changes. [Attitude, Friends, Ect..]

[Cassidy]

Since I was in the 3rd grade, I've been hanging out with my bestest pals. Polly, Kels, Kalah, Alex, ect..

Since I started Junior High my life has changed. I admit im hanging out with the wrong people. And my attitude has changed quite a bit.

I want to know what happend to me. I started hanging out with this freak girl Jucasia [ aka Jai ] she is the nastiest soul. She says INAPROPRIATE THINGS. And she is too hyper. I told her to stop hanging around me and she thought i was kidding. So today i screamed at her. Telling her LEAVE ME ALONE. Didnt work.

What do i do? I want to live like i did. I had better grades then too.

 

[BabyPiglet]

Wow, you're blaming everything on other people. It's your fault your grades are dropping, it's your fault your attitude is changing into something you don't like.

Yelling at her isn't going to get you anywhere, being mean isn't either. Do you know how awful it is to think you're friends with someone, but one day that person just starts completely ignoring you or is unusually mean? Talk to her, it's simple.

If you want to act differently, then act differently. It's nobody's fault but your own, realize that.

 

[Cassidy]

You dont get it.

SHE WONT LISTEN.

I try to talk to her and she ignores me! She acts like she's gonna die.

She hangs on my arms, grabs my legs, SHE GOT ME DETENTION ONE TIME!

I'm not blaming my grades on other people. Did i say " its their fault my grades are dropping? "

Just ever since I started hanging out with her, my grades have lowered. Not being im doing poorly, its because i think she is taking my work. I looked through her binder for her agenda, cause she said i could use it. And i found a wad of MY homework in HER folder.

 

[Lizbon]

Well in my opinion, go to the guidance counselor. It sounds like it won't work, and it sound lame but it might work. Ask you guidance counselor if the three of you can get together in her office and talk. No interruptions. Then you "friend" will pretty much have to listen. It will put everything on the table and you can tell her how you feel without it getting out of hand. Good luck!

 

[Blooe]

Well in my opinion, go to the guidance counselor. It sounds like it won't work, and it sound lame but it might work. Ask you guidance counselor if the three of you can get together in her office and talk. No interruptions. Then you "friend" will pretty much have to listen. It will put everything on the table and you can tell her how you feel without it getting out of hand. Good luck!

that would probably be the best thing to do

 

[xo juicy splash]

If you are hanging out with the wrong people make new friends, or start talking to your old ones again. Screaming at people to leave you alone deff. won't work. It justs makes you look crazy.

And yes, you are basically blaming her for your poor grades. It's nobody fault but your own. If you don't want her to copy your homework say No. Study more. Sit in the front of the room (trust me this works bid time), take a lot of notes, underline something if the teacher says it more than once..

 

[Cassidy]

She doesn't copy. SHE STEALS.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Explain it to her calmly, and go sit somewhere else. If she follows you, tell the teacher you can't focus with her around you.

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

I feel like this is one big exaggeration.......