I actually do feel that way to some extent, yes. There is a part of me that feels like the severity of the pandemic in the Western world has much more to do with our generally unhealthy ways of living than with any of our responses or lack thereof. My daughter has been in touch with her host families in Japan throughout this entire thing, both sets of parents and three of her host-siblings individually. She was particularly concerned about her first host family, because they live in an apartment building in a suburb of Tokyo and she couldn't imagine how they could social distance, based on her time there. And their success with the virus seems almost inexplicable. They shut down non-essential travel between prefectures and closed some large congregate entertainment facilities like theme parks, but her father has been commuting on a train to Tokyo every day throughout the whole thing and says it is only a little less crowded, and the restrictions on smaller entertainment venues were a request for people to use caution and reduce capacity but not a closure. Her college-age brother was out at a karaoke bar the weekend he moved into his apartment near school and has had in-person classes and her mother and tween host sister made a weekend of moving him in, complete with a stop at an onsen resort on their way home. They've had much more freedom of movement and far fewer business closures than we have, and yet the virus never really took off there.
And as far as non-compliance, I think every state has that problem. Mask mandates have been a joke in Michigan. There are maybe a dozen counties (of 84) where they're taken seriously. Business closures have been somewhat more effective because that is under the power of state licensing agencies rather than up to local authorities to enforce, but there has been plenty of defiance and plenty of people supporting that defiance. So I tend to assume that's a constant of human behavior; there will be X% who ignore all mandates and Y% who are more cautious than reopening plans, and state mandates are only likely to sway those who fit neither group. I suspect that rates of poverty, communal living, and jobs that cannot be done remotely are all far more influential than either compliance rates or lockdown rules.