Main Entrance passes allow for entry 16 times a year, for the CM/spouse and 3 extra people (or number of dependants if greater than 3), everyone must enter at the same time. CM/spouse must be present to use, (spouse will get their own card, also eligible for merchandise discount with this). Subject to blackout dates.
Also, twice a year, CMs are given 2 Complimentary passes (4 total) which are good for a single person, any day, even days that are blacked out, and do not require the CM/spouse to be present to use. These expire after 2 years.
Also, mid Oct CM's are given a Holiday booklet which contains 1 free entry for themselves and up to three people (or number of dependents if greater than 3), subject to blackout dates and expires, I think, in February.
Some positions (management) get a Silver Pass. Those are still subject to blackout dates, and limited to CM/spouse plus 3 people, but are not limited to 16 days per year. Regular CMs can also earn a Silver Pass based on years of service, I think it's 15 years.
Your spouse would also be eligible for a small discount on purchasing APs for you and your daughter.