So I just got caught up with this case today and now I'm addicted.
While googling, I came across this blog post. It downright made me roll my eyes and be angry.
I know it's long, bear with me. But I couldn't help but feel the urge to share. From the opinion of somebody who thinks Casey Anthony should be set free even if she did murder her child...
I know someone will have something to say about that.
Well, I would like to think that person's heart is in the right place. But we don't find people "not guilty" and not hold them responsible just so that we can be nice to them and help them heal. The viewpoint seems rather naive...so I think we should explore it:
The Casey Anthony trial is currently still in progress. However, for the sake of this blog post, Id like for you to imagine along with me that Casey Anthony ends up going to jail for life. Lets imagine she is found guilty and convicted of her daughters death.
Okay--let's do that...
I dont want that to happen.
I hope Casey Anthony isnt convicted. I want her to win.
If Casey is found "not guilty"--she doesn't 'win'. Her parents don't win. Caylee does not "win".
Many people would immediately, without thought, call me crazy or wrong. They would call me a supporter of a murderer. It would be almost criminal to even consider.
The blogger is highly naive. I will give the BOD that she isn't condoning and supporting a murderer. What she is doing is falling for Casey's spell.
But heres my reasoning. I want people to begin to change their perspective on situations, and this case is an excellent example of possibilities.
This case is an excellent example of--if you stick with a lie long enough and get away with it--you have no incentive for honesty. It is an excellent policy that her parents are in grave danger if Casey were given an excellent opportunity to have access to them by not being in jail.
I think that if a jury of her peers were to consider the situation
.they might possibly see that there are obviously issues here WITHIN a family. There seem to be mental issues connected with Casey Anthony and the dynamic between her and her parents, her boyfriend, and suredly, herself.
They can consider it--but it NEVER has been a defense against murder. Especially the murder of a child. Now if she murdered her dad...okay. That could be considered. Maybe if she weaves a tale of self defense, the jury could and should consider that possibility. There is no denying there are issues. But IF Casey was BORN a SOCIOPATH--then likely she is the root cause of those issues. If she were to be clinically diagnosed and confirmed a sociopath, then we must consider that she made George and Cindy the way they became and not the other way around.
There most definitely is a mental issue. But again, it is NOT a defense for murder. But it surely is a consideration in the penalty phase. But since the writer is merely talking about letting Casey go free and not being penalized at all--then Casey's mental state is irrelevant in whether or not she did the crime and whether or not she should be convicted. Her mental state is actually a mitigating factor, but not a reason to find her "not guilty".
It seems that there is no other evidence or information coming to the surface to show reason for Caylees death. We know she was murdered, but by who
and why, and under what circumstances
are all, years later, still gray. Theres nothing truly physical being shown as evidence or proof.
This seems to be the battle cry of the skeptics. There is no video of the murder and no smoking gun. But cases can and have been tried and convictions handed down on the circumstantial evidence alone. As long as it shows that Casey is the only one who *could* have done it--then she should be found guilty as charged.
As it is--there is great incentive for criminals to hide all their evidence so that they do not get busted. Thankfully--while they are entitled to a fair trial and for the state or feds to prove their case, there is wiggle room in the justice system for the evidence to speak and show that that person is the only one who could have done it. It is up to the defense attorney to show reasonable doubt to save their client. Unfortunately, Casey's attorney has only done so weakly.
This case looks to be one that deals in the realm of the psychological.
If I am not mistaken, so was the case of Charles Manson. To my knowledge he did not commit a single act of murder. However, he was still successfully convicted. Psychological to the extreme, that one!
In that light, I feel like a conviction
would lead to a complete failure of the opportunity for growth, change, and mending of problems.
I simply do not follow this---There was THREE YEARS for growth change and mending of problems. Casey has demonstrated that she is very unwilling to cooperate, even when her life is on the line. She continues to lie. Her own defense acknowledges that she lied A LOT. If she goes free, what incentive does Casey have to "grow, change or mend her problems". If she is guilty, but goes free--she has grown, she has changed, and she eliminated her problem. Her financial problems would be gone temporarily as she makes money off of the death of her child. Her parents would be nothing to her unless they did what she wanted.
And holding people accountable for their actions via conviction is not necessarily a failure of these opportunities. Many convicts (not sure the percentages) actually better themselves in jail so that when they are released, they can be contributing positive members of society. IF Casey is a sociopath--no conviction if she were not innocent (as this blogger seems to maintain)--is just positive reinforcement of all of her prior behaviors.
A conviction
in effect, would cut short the massive amount of possibilities that are available for this family to be mended, fixed, and to go on to be an example of what can happen when honesty and issues
when TRUTH
is the focus
And this is the crux of the problem. Casey is dishonest. She is not telling little white lies--she tells huge high stakes lies, lies when it isn't needed, lies to get her way, lies at all costs....given the opportunity to speak the truth, when her life is on the line--she simply cannot do it. I no doubt she told Baez some elaborate lie about how she confided in Tony all the evil things her dad and Lee did to her. And Tony had nothing of any use to defend Casey. He was told (hearsay of course) that dad disciplined her ("hit her") and Lee attempted to feel her up but failed.
This whole trial is about TRUTH AND HONESTY. And it will be found regardless of how many lies Casey has told.
A not guilty verdict would be a grave injustice and would no further encourage her to be an honest person.
It is great to WANT to believe there is good in all people, that all people can atone for their "mistakes" and learn to be honest. It is Naive to believe that everyone's brain is wired in the proper way to make that possible.
Every day in our court system--there are many on trial "who didn't do it" and "for once" are "telling the God's honest truth". We can't take them all for their word. That is why EVIDENCE...even the circumstantial kind are so very very important. We wouldn't need a court system to find out if people are guilty if honesty made those who were guilty to confess their crimes.
If Caylee goes to jail
and murdered her daughter
then what comes of it all? Nothing. For some reason, the public would feel justified that a killer went to jail. But wed slowly forget about it and move on with a head nod and a thumbs up.
I won't every forget about Casey. What comes of it--is that she is held accountable for her actions. What came of Susan Smith? We still remember her and it has been a few years since she was convicted. Her babies won't come back. But their killer is in jail. Someone willing to kill a child who is in the way of their life--is behind bars for a reason.
But the situation and the Anthony family would be stuck with the pain of it all
for the rest of their lives. Casey would go to jail and may even possibly be put to death herself. Her mother and father would lose their daughter
their granddaughter
and most likely, any reason to live whatsoever. Death, loss, permanence
thats what a conviction would be.
I empathize with the Anthony's--but we can't and should not worry about the feelings of the relatives when it comes to holding someone accountable for their actions.
I hurt when my child gets a reprimand because she was misbehaving out of my care. I feel bad for the child and I feel bad for me. However, it would be a mistake--a grave mistake for her development as a citizen of the world to not hold her accountable. Heck, I feel bad sometimes for the grown ups--and have had times where I have GRANTED PERMISSION for them to do something such as remove my child from a class if she misbehaves. Oftentimes, they are afraid for the wrath of the parents. I don't want them to be afraid that I Will get mad if they have justifiably reprimanded my child.
The Anthony's have not held Casey accountable--pretty much ever. It is a travesty that the first time she is to be held accountable is to be in the Court of Law.
But how they would feel if she is locked up--is not relevant at all to whether or not she should be convicted. Much like if your child gets a detention at school for breaking school rules...the school should not be worried that you will be upset that your angel is perfect.
Unfortunately--this is the big leagues and the stakes are much higher. However--these type of things--I think weigh in on the penalty phase of the trial. If they make a victim impact statement that it would kill them to see Casey die--I do feel that should be considered in not handing down a DP. But in this phase--they were not asked their feelings if Casey should be found guilty or not, for a good reason.
However, if Casey were set free
maybe this family could mend itself. Maybe this experience would have taught her how clouded her thinking was
maybe her parents would be finally aware of the intense mental issues their daughter has had and suffers from
and would understand her in ways they have always looked over or disregarded.
I don't think they will mend itself by virtue of her being found not guilty when she isn't innocent. She will not learn her thinking was clouded. She is convinced she has done nothing wrong. She is convinced that her parents do not love her. Casey is trying to convince her attorneys that her dad did bad things to her. They are now fully aware of what she "suffers" from. However--she is fully competent to stand trial and once again, what she "suffers" from is not a valid defense for murder.
Her parents did not make her this way.
Maybe, if Casey were set free
other people who are holding a weapon and considering killing someone
.would stop for two seconds and instead of going through with it
theyd think back to the Anthony family
and theyd see how that family went through pure HELL
before they reached resolve. Maybe theyd see how the Anthony family came out the other side BETTER
.and closer
because the truth and facts and reality were brought to the surface. Maybe those would-be murderers would think of all this
and decide to SKIP the killing step
and instead, give the truth option a good go
.and instead of killing
theyd talk
and maybe reach resolve.
This is Utopia.
OJ was found "not guilty". It did nothing to encourage people to not commit murder. What it taught was to make sure that the glove doesn't fit and you will be set free so that you can play golf until you get busted for another crime.
People in Casey's shoes are not looking at her thinking "gee, I will take the honest path, now". They look at her and see that the world is out to get her just like the world is out to get them.
In all instances
the option to look at the possible positives
outweighs the negatives, in my opinion.
There are no positives.
We could probably never know how Casey Anthonys story could ripple out and affect people in situations never known except by those involved. Who knows how many lives could be saved
and mental issues remedied
because Casey Anthony didnt go to jail
she had her personal life dragged through the public eye
.and things got better in the end.
Socipaths and narcissists are not inspired by Casey to do what is right. If Casey is found "not guilty", they will be inspired to "get away with murder" just like she did--even if they don't commit a murder. She lied so convincingly and so easily--she will be their case study into how to do it "well".
Casey will not get better. And I do fear for her family's safety if she is let go.
I think that a conviction for a murderer who kills for killings sake
without remorse
is the correct outcome.
Okay--what does this mean?
Casey shows no remorse--and in the state of Florida, if child abuse causes a death...it is indeed killing for kiling's sake. You can't cry "accident" if you were harming the child to begin with.
But in a situation that seems to have nothing BUT circumstantial evidence
nothing BUT signs pointing to a mental and family turmoil that got out of hand
.I think in those situations
jail or death is not the best option.
Scott Peterson?
I think if we would all think a little bigger pictures. If the members of that jury would see past did she do it or not
and look at this hurting girl and family
.they might choose to side on the reasonable doubt side of law
Mental illness or families in pain and turmoil are NOT reasonable doubt.
.and give her then benefit of the doubt
.because theree a huge chance for positive change.
To my knowledge, there is no cure for a sociopath or narcissism. So the only "positive" change is that Casey gets to once again be a party girl while she continues to hurt her family if not one day killing them.
If they send her to prison or she gets sentenced to death
.Im overwhelmingly sure beyond a reasonable doubt
.that nothing good will come of it. Casey Anthony should be set free
so the positive possibilities
so good can have a second chance.
The only good I can see is that Casey will be held accountable if she is found guilty. And that enough good for me.
It is rather unfortunate that this blogger has fallen for Casey's spell.
I, too, want to believe that something positive could happen--that Casey would tell the truth just for once in her life. However, most experts are of the educated opinion that she is in a state where that just is not possible.
She had many second chances. She blew them all.
I can appreciate someone wanting to see the good in all people--but the outcome she sees that is possible could only be a wish granted by a genie at this point.
Okay--time to get on with my day. Last day of soccer . It will be a long day.