Oy! LOL You make it sound like we're demanding to see our kids work records and tax stuff. My kids are 18, 20, and 22. At this point, we have an accountant do our tax return...I've been away from taxes for many years, and DH is a Chief Financial Officer...so the kids give DH the information to give to the accountant. I don't know if DH looks at it (I don't)...I will certainly ask him tonight!

...and they are certainly welcome to do it themselves, or get someone else to do it for them. I'M JUST SAYING...as accountants, and our situation being what it is, *I* wondered about Casey's tax return. She's living in the same house. (Two of my kids are not.) She's mooching off her parents.
I'd personally be MUCH more aware of what's going on financially for an ADULT child of mine living under my roof who was mooching off of me.