I am not here to tell anyone they are wrong for going on a cruise. I just went on one myself. I personally think as a couple others have eluded to that you should talk with your friends about how you enjoy cruising, understand its not great for the environment, but are supporting one of the lines who is trying as a whole company to make a difference with the environment.
I say I am not perfect, there are certain things I just want to do, but I try to make up for it by supporting the correct companies when doing so.
Your friends are very wrong for making you feel guilty about how and where you vacation.
Actually thats how things change. Should your friends also be quiet if you make improper jokes about others or have a 1950's attitude towards women in your workplace? Friends should improve your life and help make you a better person. Now the argument can be made if this is positive change or not but I am not here to try and convince people the environment needs saving or not.
I have no time for the cool trendy environmental groups and activists in 2019. I'm sure many of the ones who are jumping on the bandwagon now in 2019 called me a freak in 1992.
It is great you helped get things started but each new generation is going to continue to evolve and move forward society with how they deal with things (environment, social issues, pay, healthcare).
These are the same folks who wear vegan shoes around while screaming about carbon and the danger petroleum causes. Guess what vegan shoes are made of? Petroleum. Until these people start walking everywhere barefooted and Leo gives up his private plane, I'll hop on the cruise ship and suck down my mojitos with zulu foxtrot given.
Except here is the thing. If the normal person actually wants to do something you need to support what limited options there are that show companies that consumers want to be pro-environment. Yes electric cars may be worse in the short run for the environment but long term if the need/requirement is there then someone will find a new battery type that is cleaner, can be recycled, and is lower impact. Possibly also finding ways to leverage the current gen batteries.
Disney has made many initiatives to be more environmentally friendly. Meanwhile, we have cities in other countries where you can’t even walk around anymore because of the constant smog. You have cities that are so far off the charts in terms of air quality that it cannot even continue to be compared with the rest of the world.
This is the proper way to approach it in my eyes. Outline that Disney is making steps and you are supporting a company that is trying to lead towards a better environmental impact. That doesn't happen over night.
Do they need to cut their carbon output? No. Because you have to cut yours. Why is that? You know a leaky house will still be leaky until all the holes are plugged, not just some of them.
So, do you and your friends have cell phones? Computers? Nikes? That would make you part of the problem right there.
So someone has to be completely perfect prior to talking about imperfection? Things will not change and companies will not move away from China manufacturing as an example unless people choose to speak up and pay premiums on products produced in responsible ways.
I also would say its much easier to skip a cruise than to forgo a cell phone or computer in todays society. I would view a cell phone and computer as requirements of everyday life in a 1st world country while a cruise (albeit amazing from the one I had so far) is very much a luxury that could be replaced with other vacation options.
Your friends are telling you that you're not a good enough person because you aren't putting the earth above your own desires to live and enjoy your life.
Except all we really know is the topic was brought up that cruising is bad for the environment a couple times. I think you as well as many others are going way overboard with your reaction when for all we know its brought up in passing a couple times. The OP also sounds like they have surrounded themselves with very like minded people. Its likely guilt is less so because of the friends and more so because the OP actually has feeling that its not something they want to support even though they enjoy it.
Wouldn't bother me if someone brought up something that I didn't have anything feelings for. If my friend makes a good point thats when it hits home though. Seems to be what is happening here to the OP but only they know how this all has played out with their friends.