I'm sorry to hear that DVC is not right for you, but it's good you discovered that now. When I first bought in, I was excited about the trading options but soon discovered (too late) that it wasn't the best use of my membership. I originally planned to only go to Disney every 2-3 years and figured with banking and borrowing, we'd have a great vacation during those years.
I have a 5-year-old son, so I discovered that going to WDW every year or even more than once a year is a nice way to use my membership. The resorts are vacations within themselves and on our last trip, we had 4 days where we did not go to any of the parks. I look forward to when my son gets a little older and is able to do so much more -- water sports, etc. -- so that we can expand our Disney experience even further.
I wish you the best of luck. If you primarily wanted to trade out, another timeshare may work better for you. There are many members on this board who own other timeshares. Perhaps someone could give you a little insight into how they may work for you.