CindyBeth,
Let us know how your daughter does. It is my understanding that you cannot actually catch the real, full-blown flu from Flu-Mist, but since it is a live virus you can get a very subtle form of the flu which causes side effects for a few days. The old flu shots were like this and many people avoided them for that reason. I don't think it will truly give you the flu, but it can make you feel bad. So, I guess I would call this a "side effect" rather than the flu. Also, the reason they tell you to be careful around others with it is that the live virus lives in the nasal passages for up to 2 weeks. If your daughter *sheds* it, everyone can come into contact with it. This is not a problem for a healthy individual but is definitely a problem for people whose immune systems are compromised, which is why the nurses/doctors are given warnings. I hope your daughter feels better and I'd personally like to know how her illness progresses because I was interested in the Flu-Mist myself.