You can do what I did till I got engaged.. I posted comments to all the brides and brides to be. I have gotten lots of ideas thanks to them. I can tell you what I did not do. I did not start posting things about ideas for my wedding if I really did not have any... Telling people what I want on a wedding board when you are not engaged is really silly <----- my opinion
this is great when you are actually in the process of at least starting to plan..
You don't have to go! Just post to future, past and present brides they love to hear from us...