You will LOVE the PCC!! It is super awesome and great for kids. My first trip to Hawaii was when I was 16 and the PCC is the thing I remember most about my trip!
We have been to Hawaii several times, and honestly everyone looks like tourists. And that's because they are!! It's OK to look like a tourist in Hawaii.
Of all the luaus and shows we've seen, I really like the PCC one. It's not an intimate setting by any means, but the food is as good as any luau we've been to, and the show is better than most.