Orangetiggs, I'm in the UK too ( Chingford - not very far from your neck of the woods - I work in Essex ! ) and we are planning a May 2008 wedding at sea breeze point. We are having 3 bridesmaids - 2 little ones and my SIL2B. The little ones are sorted ( I found a dress I loved by a ebay seller who makes them - I've posted the photos on the bridesmaid dress sticky post ) but we are having trouble finding something for SIL2B. The only one to impress both of us so far is a Dessy tea dress, because we want something with wide straps, or that sort of neckline rather than strapless or thin straps, so we have no worries about strapmarks during our first week of the holiday!
DSIL2B went to a local stockist last week and they are charging £180. Now I don't mind spending that ammount, specially if she can wear it again, but I don't like feeling ripped off and I found the same dress ( it's style 2001 ) on some US webssites for $115 - $130 which is like a third of the price. One of the ideas I had was that as we are going to Vero this November, I could try to order one from a local stockist and pick it up when I get there. With it being a tea dress, there would be no alterations to the length and even if it did need tweaking, it would surely be cheaper to get a seemstress to to the ammends, than pay rip off UK prices. I'm already planning to get my shoes while I'm out there - looks like this holiday may be a tour of bridal shops. LOL