actually I am not a little man.. that was my husband who posted to you in response to that question.. and no, he isn' t a little man.. and guess what.. I didn't have to
ASK him to be a stay at home mom.. that was my decision to make.. and I got to go to Disney/Universal roughly every 6 weeks... which equates to more than 3 or 4 times a year..

I have chosen to go back to work since my children are older.. I did not have to stay home for my husband. I didn't have to ask him to stay home, nor did I have to ask him to return to work. I have a relationship where we make decisions as a married couple, not a marriage who has a dominant person controlling the household...
she asked you to stay home....

OMG that would be the day I had to ask..