Yes, being that my child is a teenager, I'm aware of that. I guess it is fortunate for both him and me that I am still able to foresee some situations where he might get in trouble and head them off.
What I was saying in the first place is that if I thought my 14 year-old couldn't control his emotions enough to stop himself from responding to on-line criticism, he wouldn't be on the computer.
You and I are in the same boat.... I also have a ds14.
We both know they can be unpredictable at times....Like you stated, some situations are predictable, but unless a problem has already occurred, some things are just hard to predict and take action on.
When you put yourself out there, people talk about you ~ good and bad.

She was working as a receptionist and she graduated high school.
legal or illegal, I'd prefer to see my kids use cocaine and hurt only themselves, than to use hate speech and hurt other people.