BoYfRiEnDs?? GiRLfRiEnDs??

[WDWfanatic288]

well yall are my love preachers now...lol

me and boyfriend broke up today..Im over it already...i feel great...I got weight lifted off me...its great...I mean I loved him..honestly...but he lied to me(if u wanna know more..PM me...ill tell u the WHOLE story...lol)


but yall know what is gong on and Joe Cool you should like a great guy...not like all these jerks running around my school(thats why my now ex-boyfriend went to another school)

 

[Girly2004]

WDWfanatic288, I think that it has to be something with south east Texas that a lot of the guys are jerks. I've dealt with more the my fair share of them.
I'm sorry to hear about what your boyfriend to you I know how rough that is. Some people just don't seem to have hearts, or if they do they are really good at hiding them. I hope that I never understand how someone can look another person that they are suppose to love and lie to them.
Oh, there is one thing I've been wanting to get out in the open. Am I the only person who the words "I love you" mean a long term relationship? More then once I have been scared out of a relationship when the other person tells me that they love me after only a week or two? I can't bring my self to say "I love you" tell I have been with a person for a while and I know that I really do love them. Me and Derek didn't say "I love you" to each other tell he had already moved and we had both tried dating other people. OH well, I'm just venting!

 

[WDWfanatic288]

I understand where you are coming from...Ive said it but I think I meant it at the time but now I think it was stupid..there is nothing wrong with you..guys know that girls like it said so they just say it..guys are dumb sometimes....yeah I think it might the guys down here in Texas!!

 

[iLovDisney]

My BF is Michael and he is both a blessing and a curse.
Half the time he is sweet and funny, but half the time he ignores me and flirts with this girl named Jessie. He's liked her forever, but I thouhght you were not allowed to flirt once you had a GF. But he's so blatant.
I wuv him to death but I can't stand it when he does this!!! I'm undecided about what to do. We've been together for a while, but all my friends say top ditch the "loser". I Dunno. The good times hardly make up for the bad anymore. (PS- he refused to dance at the School dance and didn't say happy birthday or even look at me an my bd.)

 

[Girly2004]

iLovDisney, Here's what I would do. I would tell him to choose who he wants you or the other girl. If he says the other girl then he maynot be the one for you and he's a real loser anyways. He he chooses you then you tell him that he needs no stop flirting with other people.


OR>>> you could just flirt with oter guys and see what he does then.

Love, Christy

 

[WDWfanatic288]

DUMP HIM!!!



oh my gosh..thats a very jerkish thing to do!!! Dump the loser,pronto!!! that such a jerk...I mean he going out with YOU,he shouldt flirt..I mean yeah,its gonna happen but thats what is considered the friendly flirt and thats a little different.

he DIDNT tell you happy birthday??? oh my gosh...even my ex-boyfriend told me happy birthday..even people i dont like I tell them happy birthday!!!
hes making you miserable...I mean you SOOOOOOO deserve better...I mean let him go out with the other girl..he will do the exact same...guys never change..


He even makes me mad and I dunno him!!!

do that to him!!

 

[iLovDisney]

I dumped him and feel much better now.

 

[Girly2004]

Good for You! He got what was coming to him!

 

[iLovDisney]

Bump. I like this thread.

 

[Joe Cool]

This thread is great, I'll bump it to...

I feel bad for you girls who are in relationships with those anal apertures...my girlfriend Talli's friend Amber has been dating this guy J.R. for forever, and it seems like she's only with the guy for his money. I mean, the dude's a <i>complete</i> sellout, always trying to get in bed with Amber's friends (Talli included...*grr*), but thank God for me Talli sees right through him, no pun intended *laughs*. Amber's kind of a player, though, and I predict she and J.R. will be over by August, but of course Amber has to have another boyfriend lined up first. Oy, vey.

My outlook on relationships and love is pretty basic...keep it real, keep it all for the girl (or the guy in your case), no exceptions. I learned a few years ago that love and lust are like donuts and coffee, in no particular order...(*laughs*...stay with me here for a sec)...both have their own sweet and bittersweet appeal, but you can get burned or gorged on either...or neither.

Stay cool, and keep this thread goin...

JC

 

[JuviRex11]

There seems to be alot of guy trashing here, even from guys(sell-out). Well, I'm gonna give my 2 cents. I am a 17 year old guy, and I get alot of attention from girls for some reason(Ive had a bunch of different girls say I look like Freddy Prinze Jr). Anyway, I am leaving for college in a few months, so it would be stupid to get into a relationship, and Im gonna have fun over the next few months. I hook up with alot of girls, usually a few per weekend. But I always tell them before that it is the extent of the relationship, and that I will never go out with them. Or I'll say something to the extent of "I will probably never talk to you again". Regardless, 95% of the time they dont care. They accept this situation and they dont mind, and just want the pleasure. So before you say that I'm a user, remember, these girls enjoy being used. Or Something(And before you say theyre ugly, they definately are not. Last weekend the girl looked like Jennifer Love Hewitt and the other was Syracuse's top amateur model. Theyre both in the top 10!)

 

[Girly2004]

That may be true, but keep in muind that not all girls want to be used! There are some girls and guys that get used when thay don't want to! I personally don't think that a guy who is willing to say that there are others of his own kind that are jerks is a sellout. As for the guy trashing, well I'm sorry! we're just sharing are views on a touchy subject!

Love,
christy

 

[PigSoldier]

Wow!!
Last time I looked at this thread, people were just talking about how cute/lovely their boy/girlfriend was. Now I come back and we're having a big, lovely argument!!

To add my two cents, I think that people have very mixed up ideas of love. You can think you love someone, but in most cases, you don't.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't go out on dates, have boyfriends, etc, etc.

And JuviRex, we have words for people like you, but I won't post them here .

 

[Girly2004]

HEy!
Lets all be nice! Now Every has differnet views no matter how messesd thay might be! We should be nice to them about it! Love, is a very touch subject and it is my view that when your in love you know it!
As I have said before I'm in love, and I threre is nothing you can do to change my mind about it. Threre is only peroson who can do that and he thinks that he's in love with me also!

Love, Christy

 

[Joe Cool]

I probably forgot half the stuff I was going to say in this post, so here's my...eh...two dollars anyway

<i>Hoooo</i> boy...

Eh...ya. <i>Uh</i> huh.

I'm trying to figure out what's more disappointing...the fact that some people seem so insecure that even one less than stellar comment about another guy (who of course <i>must</i> be completely perfect......and I know, you didn't say that...) makes them think 'sellout'...or the realization that a someone that hooks up with so many random girls...and thinks somehow that they're a better person for it. Am I sounding defensive yet? <i>shudder</i>. I'm not going to waste time aiming insults or crafting comebacks for a part of an argument that's not worth having. (and then, some people will go, "you already did"...) Granted, there are girls who want to be used. Fine with me, but if they want to hook up with me, they'll have to find another jerk or gigolo to fulfill their pseudo-relationship cravings for the weekend (or even the hour.... )There are girls who don't want to be used, too, and Granted, there are guys who in other people's opinions are users, or players, or whatever. Everyone's entitled, but you knew that. I'll say this much, and then I'll step off my high horse...you can call me a sellout, which I'm not (who sells out to whom?), but then of course I'll ask which requires more integrity: hooking up a girl for 10 minutes, or 10 months...(along with that, finding someone you're "not tired of").

You know, there's no concrete standard to what guy-trashing (or relationshipping) is. Open-mindedness is what makes online forums thrive, so let's bite the bullet and move on. I...don't think anyone was trying to change anyone's mind <i>any</i>way, but that's just me. Good for him, if girls think he looks like Freddie Prinze, Jr. and he hooked up with a Jennifer Love Hewitt look-alike. Better for you, if you're in love...that's the most incredible thing in the world, and no one should ever tell you otherwise.

JC

 

[PigSoldier]

Very, very well said .

 

[Joe Cool]

Thanks, PigSoldier, I needed to get that off my chest.

Today's my last day here for a <i>while</i>...see you all in late June or early July!

JC

 

[JuviRex11]

First of all, the sellout thing was meant as a joke. Chill out.
Second, I feel love. Are you saying I'm unloved? I have an incrediably supportive family and great friends. I don't need to feel relationship love. Ive had relationships, unfortunately they don't work, and I know what love is from those. Yes, it feels good, but I know the relationship will end, be it from me going to college in 2 months or other circumstances.
Third of all, I'm a jerk because I hook up with girls who simply want some fun? That's being a jerk? I'm not making these girls feel bad, I'm not lying to them. They know what they're in for. And even to make sure they're happy, I stay in touch with them, I don't just ditch them.
Fourth, its not a psuedo-relationship craving. It simply feels good, and you can have be close friends too. Just because its a guy and girl doing stuff doesn't mean that they have to be dating or in a long supportive relationship, they can just be friends.
Fifth, You question my integrity? Well, you need to come down off your pedestal, and realize that just because you're a "nice guy" does not make you above anyone. I'm not a nice guy. I never will be. Does that make you better than me? Does that give you the right to trash and condemn my choices? I understand that a guy such as myself is not the best boyfriend or husband. What I am is a great friend to many people, and the resident counselor among my friends when they have personal problems. I help out my elderly neighbors. I drive my siblings around if they need to go somewhere. I worked myself hard in school for 4 years to get into a top University, so I could complete my parents dream of someone in the family going to college. And despite your preconceptions, girls often consider me their best friend, regardless of if I hook up with them or not. What does it take more integrity to do: Date a girl for 10 months and break up, or stay a close friend with a girl for 10 years, then hook up with her because she wants her first guy she does anything with to be a close friend, not some bozo. You want to question my integrity? Question this.

 

[PigSoldier]

With Joe Cool away, I feel that I should reply, but I think this thread has got un-Disney enough already, so I'll bite my tongue and move on.

 

[Musicprincess]

Hey people!! sorry i havent been here in a while but im glad that the thread i started has held up! I was just reading all the posts on here and i cant believe how much advice and great stories we've gotten out of this! ill write more soon...sorry i wasnt here again! LOL ttyl!
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~*~Mandy~*~