Boyfriend Help Asap!

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Ok guys I REALLY need some bf help right now! Last night my bf of 6months and I got in a small argument over how he acts at school. He kind of acts ashamed of me. Well all our friends agree that he's been acting really weird lately. Anyway, he went to bed mad at me and I cried myself to sleep . This morning when he woke up he was still mad at me but over stupid little things that didn't even relate to our argument! He told me that he needed time to think about if he even liked me anymore which hit me really hard. I've cried ALL DAY and have talked to all of our friends about it. They all say that we should not talk for a few days until we cool down. I'm terrified that tonight will be it tho. If you have any advice PLEASE POST NOW! I really care about him and he's killing me right now . I really need on outside view. Thanx

 

[reminisce]

everyones right, you need to let him cool off, and maybe you have some cooling off to do, too? even the best of couples fight, and what your feeling (and him, too) is only natural. also, guys dont like emotional clingyness, and the way your feeling right now may be interpreted as that. just chill, and try not to worry too much

 

[iGenie]

Wait what he sleeps at your house?? :O

 

[Thumbs18]

No he doesn't sleep at my house . we just text every night until we fall asleep. I found out all the reasons he was mad at me and some of them were legitamate. We talked everything out last night and now we're trying to get back to normal (not working out too well) . We are both still a little bit steamed but we're calming down. I wasn't mad persay last night I was extremely hurt that he did this out of NOWHERE. None of my friends would let me talk to him until really late. They talked to him though. I felt kinda bad about it but then again I didn't. . . that's the latest on it though. Thanks for the help!

 

[xo juicy splash]

Good luck!
If you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me.

 

[iGenie]

No he doesn't sleep at my house . we just text every night until we fall asleep. I found out all the reasons he was mad at me and some of them were legitamate. We talked everything out last night and now we're trying to get back to normal (not working out too well) . We are both still a little bit steamed but we're calming down. I wasn't mad persay last night I was extremely hurt that he did this out of NOWHERE. None of my friends would let me talk to him until really late. They talked to him though. I felt kinda bad about it but then again I didn't. . . that's the latest on it though. Thanks for the help!

So you snore?

 

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LoL Idk if I snore. Everything is goin down the tubes again though . I'm trying so hard to fix things between us but I'm failing. He's thinking about breaking up . . . Some of the things he's saying are like a knife being repeatedly and swiftly thrust into my heart. My best friend knows what my bf is gonna do but he refuses to tell me which only makes the pain worse. I'm so scared about school tomorrow. All I want is to be able to run into his arms because my weekend has been so bad (the night all this started I found out that my grandma had Lymphoma (sp?)) but I can't. I'm trying to give it time but. . .Idk how much longer I can hang on. I don't want anyone to think he's a jerk though! He's really a sweet guy. . .he just let's stuff build up inside. I'll keep u updated. He gets off work in 20 minutes so. . .

 

[DisGirlAllie]

BF sitting next to me reading computer screen says: Dude sounds like a jerk. Dump him, because otherwise you'll both be miserable. It's very sweet of you to care about him, but he needs time to sort things out.

 

[Rockstar mentality]

I know how painful this may sound but sometimes u just need 2 let go. i mean i hope u 2 work it out but if it doesent just take it as fun while it lasted and a postivve experience.

 

[!magine]

I so bet she snores.

 

[Thumbs18]

He broke up with me at 11:45 pm last night. It was HORRIBLE. I felt like a knife went through my heart. I cried a lot last night and frequently at school. He and I have both decided that we want to sit down with each other with one of our teachers as a mediator and talk things out. I don't think he wanted to break up as bad as he tried to make me think he did though. He cried when he did it (0ver the phone) he agreed to talk things out (actually it was his idea) and when he saw me after school he gave me a big hug and started to laugh again. One of my best friends told him this morning that we needed to talk to each other and he agreed with her on that and when she said that he and I shouldnt be apart he said that he knew she was right. Idk whats gonna happen. once again I'll keep you posted

 

[RaggedyAnnPrincess]

1. He shouldn't have have broken up over the phone. Why don't people just get the fact that breaking up over the phone is NOT GOOD??

2. It's nice that he wants to talk it out.

3. Good luck, you went through a lot, so I hope you guys can talk it out and stay good friends. Pixie dust to ya'll!

 

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I tried to talk things out but everyone kept bugging him about it so he won't have anything to do with me. I'm hurting bad I'm trying so hard not to cry again but I'm failing. I hurt. Help what do I do! He's being a jerk

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

I'm sorry.
But if he was saying things intentionally meant to hurt you, maybe it was best.

 

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I know it was for the best. when one door closes another one opens right? Whats gonna make it hard is my Christmas Ball is tonight and even though I'm excited because it's a new start I'm also sad. I'm moving on slowly because small things still remind me of him. Like the park (the last place we went) my back patio (first kiss) just little things. I grabbed a shirt out of my closet yesterday and pretty much ran out the door to school. When I got to school someone complimented it and when I looked down at it I realized that it was the shirt he had had airbrushed for me in Gulf Shores. My dad told me to box everything up but I can't bring myself to do it. I don't want to forget about all the good times we had. I've taken down all my pictures of us. . .but the penguin he gave me (my favorite animal) still sits on my bed.

 

[Lil_Tink]

Honestly, in my opinon, if you break up, you were better off without him. Same thing happened to me kinda, he just started acting wierd and dumped me for his 'friend'. Who knows if they were cheating or what, but whatever. Don't let anyone bring you down and keep your head up high

 

[Thumbs18]

Well I'm about to head out to my Christmas dance tonight and I'm ready to "strut my stuff" and forget all about my x-bf. I can't wait to have fun and dance the night away with my friends. Post more later!

 

[Thumbs18]

Ok so it's been 2 weeks and I'm still hurting pretty bad. I can't get over him and I've been trying really hard. i feel so bad all the time and I don't want to think that this is the end. I want to get back together but IDK how. Help?