Okay. I think I've digested this, but using so many words to explain how some might feel more spontaneous with FP+ is not a good sign.![]()
OK, I admit to a personal flaw here because I type really fast so there's no need to trim things to get them put down rapidly. Often I look at what I've written and I feel it ought to be shorter, but I can't figure out what to cut that won't affect the perception of what I am trying to express.
I've bolded some portions of your post pertaining to, I think, the people you suggest who would consider FP+ spontaneous. Aren't these people innately unspontaneous? And if so, is that not a poor sample group to judge what spontaneity is? (Please don't these take the questions negatively, I don't mean them that way.)
No negativity taken, but clarity never hurts so thank you.
I would say no. If we consider spontaneity in this context to be not making a decision until the time when a decision needs to be made or else no action will occur, then I think there are two factors behind my response.
First, nobody ever succeeds in planning absolutely everything more than 10 minutes in advance, so I think it would be inaccurate to say that "planners" do not regularly make spontaneous decisions. Example: it makes my husband nuts that I have vacations planned for the next year and a half and finish all my holiday shopping before Thanksgiving, but roughly 40% of the time have no answer to "what are we doing for dinner tonight?". I admit this is frequently because I had some sort of plan and it went out of the window, but that supports my contention that I don't believe daily life permits the complete absence of spontaneity for anybody.
Second, I think for many planners (including myself), in certain circumstances like when you are on vacation the feeling of spontaneity is a *prize*. I love planning. I also love taking a break from planning, under the right circumstances. I have three kids, a dog, and four cats. It's not only that I love planning, it's that I must. Again as an example -- I love to cook. That is not the same thing as enjoying having to find something to make for dinner every day, no matter how tired I am or what else has happened. The joy of being spontaneous while on vacation is similar to the relief of having your mother show up for a week and take over responsibility for dinner. I don't want to be spontaneous all the time any more than I want my mother to live with me all the time, but that doesn't mean I don't truly enjoy and place a high value on a limited-time experience.
I don't believe that I am alone in feeling this way, although for certain I could be wrong about that. And I would say that the fact that even planners like myself can feel constrained to plan by circumstances, as opposed to desire, makes us just as qualified to judge spontaneity as those who prefer to avoid planning in advance whenever possible.
I'm a planner by nature, in some ways at least like you. I'm not a very spontaneous person most of the time--people who know me personally would be shouting "Amen!" right now if they read this. I often play the long game. But I can be spontaneous--just last month at Universal I asked the family "which park?" while on the bus to...the parks. Granted Universal is a different animal in important ways affecting spontaneity (the two parks are literally next to each other), but my point remains the same. Because of FP+, it is harder to do that at WDW these days without losing something, maybe it's the chance to ride Splash without waiting 90 minutes in July. FP+ reduces spontaneity ipso facto by planning out more of your days--and I don't think the point of view of a group of hard-wired planners changes that. I have nothing against that point of view, I just don't understand it and certainly don't share it.
OK, going back to the original question ... I think one thing I perhaps didn't clarify enough in the original post (despite all my words

I argued to Shaden that no decision about what to do next is free of any constraints -- if everybody but me agrees that decisions about what to do next if are only truly spontaneous if they are made by writing the name of each attraction of a folded slip of paper and drawing them from a hat then I will concede that no scenario involving FP+ can possibly be more spontaneous than one without.
I think though, one might reasonably argue if more constraints on a decision at the point when you make it, there is less opportunity for spontaneity as options have been removed. In my scenario, when the FP- planners are making one of their decisions, they will not only be trying to make it work with the known FP- that they have, but they will also prioritize the fit of any individual option with the backup plans, and the backup plans for the backup plans. This equals more constraints and, if you accept the first statement, less spontaneity.
Having compulsively fixed my original point, I'm going to make another one inspired exactly by what you wrote:
Which would you say was more spontaneous, someone who has a touring plan for every single park in hand but doesn't decide what park they're going to until they drive onto Disney property, or someone who decides the park and makes three FP+ in advance but plans absolutely nothing else about their day?
There are a lot of people that FP- didn't work for, and they got around it with touring plans which most people would consider to be a very unspontaneous way to go through the parks. FP+ works better for a lot of these people, so if they can get the same or better experience than they had before in terms of what they accomplish by going in only with their 3 FP+ and making the rest of the decisions on the fly, maybe they are actually having a more spontaneous day?
FP+ is many things good, bad, and indifferent. I completely agree it works great for many and not so well for many others. In certain circumstances it works great, in others not so much. But I still cannot fathom how it enables spontaneity. I do appreciate the attempt though.![]()
Agreed!
