How can I take my 5 and 2 year old to Disney and not have a meal with Mickey
Well...IMO it's not that big a deal. I took my then 2 year old and later 5 year old to
Disneyland without having a meal with Mickey. He never once wondered about it.
It's only been in the last year that Disneyland has had a Mickey character meal, so that's MANY years of little kids not dining with Mickey out there!
If it works for those who go to Anaheim, it can work for those in Orlando. It's NOT the end of the world, I promise.
And, I'll let you know something else...little kids, if they like the characters, have a really hard time *eating* at character meals. They are too busy and too bewildered to remember to eat. So you either force them to ignore the characters (that are so important to you while planning) so they can eat, or you let them ignore their food...and then deal with the hunger meltdowns later on.
Characters meals can be good for kids who are used to the whole experience, but don't go into your first character meals thinking that they'll have the WHOLE experience...something's gotta give, in general, with character meals for newbies...
We didn't do even one character meal until our third visit to Disneyland...and my son lived to tell the tale.