Blessing and tragedy all in one day

[disneybound2010]

I got news this morning that my oldest and dearest friend and his wife are having their baby today. She is in delivery right now. I'm over the moon for them and I'm so greatful that they have been blessed with this little life. I cannot wait to see them as parents and I am hoping that even though we don't live so close anymore our children will grow up to be as close as we have been.

On the other end, I just found out,moments ago, that another old friend was told this morning that her baby has died. She was due any day. They are planning to induce her in the morning. I talked to her SIL (another good friend of mine) and everyone is just beside themselves and no one is really sure how to proceed at the moment. I just feel horrible for her. She has been through so much and it seemed that she was finally catching a break and was happy for the first time in a long time....and now this.

I'm not even sure how to feel at this moment. It all seems completely surreal. I start to feel giddy at the thought of a new life and within seconds I am weeping for the loss of one. It's all just so bittersweet.

If you have a moment, please say a prayer for everyone.

 

[disney_mommy]

Wow, what a joyous, and yet horrible, situation. I hope everyone can find comfort within their own family and friends. So sad.

 

[sdzimm]

My prayers are with your loved ones.

I hope they have the love and support to make it through this tough time. There aren't any words to fully soothe the loss for the family (and especially the mom).

 

[s&k'smom]

Oh I'm so sorry, years ago I had a friend lose a baby inutero, it's a heartbreaking thing. My thoughts and prayers to your friend.

 

[disney_mommy]

I also knew someone in the same situation. She said the worse part was being out in public and having people ask about the baby (still in utero) and having to explain.

I can't imagine being so close to delivery, though, and having that happen. You always think that once you're past the first trimester, things are going to be okay...

 

[missypie]

I know two women who gave birth on the day one of their parents died.

 

[Robinrs]

Please, whatever you do, find out how to give support to your friend who lost the child. I know the pain all too well and if she needs a shoulder, give it to her.

I'm so sorry.

 

[cm8]

sending thoughts and prayers to your friend.