Thank you so much to all of my friends!

You have helped me feel so much better!!!! So many of you offered wonderful suggestions, and I am going to start some of those! I am worthy, I am a good person, and I am a gift from God, and I WILL make my life better, not just for me, but my family as well. I love you guys. Thanks for being my cheerleaders and sending me some hugs to comfort me!
Vija - First of all STOP right now - make a list of everything that's great about you...I'll help...you're a leader, you're positive, you're a motivator, you're a nurturer, you have a kind and loving soul...and focus on that.
Okay - different subject...."Honey we're killing the kids" is on TLC and I think it's Saturday but I'll check. I've only seen it twice but they take a family and they had 2 kids and based on what they eat now and the exercise the kids get they age them to 40 and show their parents. It's shocking! Then they completely change their menus, exercise and family time for 3 weeks. The kids griped the first week or two a LOT but by the end they were loving the family time and eating the food, and they had more energy.
Make it a great day!
I love the idea of making a list, and you have inspired me to have that as our question for the next week! Thanks for the info on the show, I will have to do a search for it, I see below that OhMom saw it today, darn, I'll need to check the tvguide!
as for me, I havent introduced myself. I'm Binny, or Robin but I answer to both lol. I am 36, married to James for 14 years, and we have 3 great kids. I have fibromyalgia and I have used that as an excuse to not get out and exercise for awhile. The truth is, if I do it right, it helps not hurts. I just have to find that balance.
I am doing Sparkpeople and so far have lost 32 pounds since April 15th. My goal date is Jan 15th. So far I am on track to make that.
That stinks about the Fibromyalgia, Balance is truly what it is all about. So many people have mentioned Sparkpeople that I think I might want to go check it out.
Vija...I hope today is a better day for you

I never officially thanked you for stepping up to be our captain, so THANK YOU!

You are taking big steps to leading a healthier life and that takes so much courage. I know I speak for everyone here, we're proud of you. You can do this!!!
Yesterday wasn't such a great day for me. I don't know why Sundays are so hard for me. It really had me feeling down in the dumps last night. DH bought me a new exercise bike so I used it this morning. I didn't realize how much I would enjoy it but I was on it for 65 minutes and according to the monitor on it, I burned a little over 900 calories. Does that sound right? It seemed like too much, too good to be true sort of thing, but I know I burned SOME and that's what counts. I have a really bad case of "bicycle butt" and hope it's not hurting too bad when I want to get on it again tomorrow morning
I hope everyone is having a good day. I was looking forward to my weigh in tomorrow but after the eating fiasco yesterday, I'll be lucky if I even lost anything. This is a brand new week though and always time to make things better.
Thanks for your kind words! Sounds like we both had yucky Sundays. OUch that cycle but hurts! Hope it gets better for you, but wow, 65 minutes on it, that is awesome! Way to go!!!!
Oh Princess Vija ...people don't realize how cruel they are with their words. You are not alone here - I had to honk at someone last week as they came to a complete stop and started to park - ignorant that they were blocking me in. And the minute he took a look at me - he had his angle. He started calling me fat, asked me if I was in a hurry to get donuts, and why am I so fat. He was obviously a ridiculous man since I just tapped my horn to move forward. BUT - Most people don't have that type of target on them that we overweight people do. It is a huge gapping hole in our self protection. People know my greatest weakness, fear and self confidence issue - the minute they look at me. And I was just soooo frustrated.
Almost on a weekly basis I hear the "wow she would be so pretty if she could lose some weight" Do people actually think this is a compliment? or "that is just a huge girl." I am 6'0". And it hurts every single time.
I believe that over the years I have become completely obsessed and paranoid for these comments instead of getting used to them. I found that over time I was constantly comparing myself to other overweight people thinking " am I bigger than them?" I TOTALLY AGREE with the mantra - I have just purchased an Overeaters Anonymous Book in the hopes that I can work on my negative and obsessed thoughts.
You are so great - your posts are motivating and HEY YOU GOT ME ON THIS TEAM!! I have lost 4 pounds this week. I can guarantee that it would have been 0 and big ZERO - if I didn't have this motivation. You are with people that understand and please post when you feel this way and hopefully we can all become healthier and HAPPIER!!
wow, just reading what that mean man said made me very angry! that completely stinks, and I don't understand why people are so darn mean. Your words echo my thoughts. I do the comparing, and the paranoia too. Where did you get the overeaters anonymous book? let me know how you like it. AND WAY TO GO GIRL! 4# loss is awesome!!!!

I am really proud of you!!!
I made it to the gym yesterday and did 30 minutes on the eliptical/ 30 on the treadmill.
Yay! for the exercise! and I am glad that you said you like the comments to everyone, I wasn't sure if people like that, but I am getting to know people so well, and I love the extra comments!
I just had to share this with someone....
I am actually down 3 sizes!!! It is amazing the difference it makes. I left the store actually feeling good about myself instead of feeling like I was going to cry. I am just so thrilled that all my hard work is really starting to pay off. It actually makes me want to go back and buy more clothes that fit that I can wear to work and around town. My poor wallet is screaming....

We know who is going to be dancing up a storm at this wedding! You are totally inspiring! 3 sizes is awesome!!! And just think about all those calories burned as I see you doing the Macarena, Tequila (the dance not the drink!

), the chicken Dance, YMCA... and all those other wonderful wedding dances!

ANd no, I am not kidding, I LOVE doing all of those dances!!!! Have fun and enjoy yourself. You deserve to enjoy your hardwon success! Congrats on the job well done, and enjoy the victory!
vija -- how are you feeling today. i'm so proud of you for coming to us and sharing and the outpouring of understanding, you are not alone!
to me it's just way cool that we can all unite whether we have 15 or 115 or 215 lbs to lose b/c we all have the same emotions, frustrations, guilt, depression that comes from our baggage.
ok -- i'm a bit BLUE today too b/c i stepped on the scale this morning feeling pretty good about my past week and i'm UP 1.4 lbs.

I WILL NOT PLAY THE NUMBERS GAME I WILL NOT PLAY THE NUMBERS GAME I WILL NOT PLAY THE NUMBERS GAME.
i will stay the course, I will work my plan, the plan works
i did stay after work and did 10 mins on the exercise bike and 30 mins of strength training. tomorrow is a walking day for me
I feel the same way about how we can help each other and unite as one without judging each other, but with an amazing outpouring of support, love and motivation!
I am sorry you are feeling a little blue today, the numbers sometimes can be so frustrating. This is the time to keep going, because your body is just adjusting, before you know it the numbers will keep going down. My WW leader today said that she can count on 1 hand how many people had a steady slope down to goal. Everyone goes up and down just a bit, keep going and push through that wall!
man - you guys - BL BLUE TEAM are just AWESOME !!!!
I walked through the door from work and my "mantra" was I will not eat before dinner - I will have a cup of coffee and stick with the plan....... like ohMom says - if I stick with the plan ....it does work - so what better company to enjoy my coffee with than my TEAMMIES
Vija - hope today is a bit better and keep coming back to us - we are here for ya! One day at a time - and lots of chatting with your WISH friends - like others - sending that
AND - I will not be eating ANYTHING after 7pm - that is my "old" rule that I need to get back into my life
I really like the idea of the Mantra, I think Debbie also mentioned it, if someone else did, I am sorry, it is getting late and I am a bit tired!

I will have to try that.
Anyway...
Princess Vija: HUGS HUGS to you!! I feel like smacking those ignorant people right in the face.
Thanks! I may take you up on that offer!

I'll just send you their addresses....!
Oh seaspray - you're right about the finale of Fat March tonight I want to watch that - I'm glad I popped in.
OT: just checked out the newest American Girl historical doll...Julie, 9 years old in 1974...let's see, so she was born the same year as me...

I'm the same age as a historical doll!!
OK, now what in the world is Fat march? I must be missing some good tv!
and I know what you mean about the American Girl Doll, I just saw that tonight. Just doesn't feel right that we are in the historic doll collection along with dolls from the revolution!
I'm doing ok on the exercise I think....did a 5k race this weekend...walked most of it but at least it is a start.
5K race is outstanding! That is a start and I am very proud of you. You put forth the effort and took the chance! Way to go!
I rewarded myself today for all the overtime (w/o OT pay) that I have been working. I ordered myself 3 new workouts. All Leslie Sansone workouts. I can't wait to get some new workouts.
what a great way to spend your $$$$$ I love Leslie Sansone. She is very calming and encouraging.
Hi everyone!!!!
I am proud of myself today, because I went oj the elliptical for 20 minutes and could have probably done more, but...well...I got bored. I struggled to do 5 minutes just 2-3 weeks ago so I am THRILLED I can do the 20+ now. My shins feel like the beginnings of shin splints so the low impact elliptical is perfect for a workout while I rest the shins from walking so they can heal.
ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(Thank you for allowing me to scream in frustration while I realize I can't do my beloved high intensity walks for at least a week while I let my legs heal up).
Less than 24 hours until Season Four!!!! Go Blue Team!!!!
Wow, look at you go! You can already see the difference the exercise has made for you. Take care of those shin splints. ANd please feel free anytime to scream in frustration, and let the
silent expletives fly! (Have to be silent so we don't get in trouble witht he mods!

) sometimes it is good to just get it out!
Hello Everybody!!!
Why does the packaging matter so much? Remember, you can gift wrap s**t, its still s**t. INSIDE is what really matters. If you feel good about yourself, no one can take that away from you. Feel proud of what you have accomplished! And what you WILL accomplish.
Oh that put a smile on my face! the visual had me chuckling, but you are so right, it is so much more than the packaging. And I have good "stuff" inside! Now I will just buff up the outside so I sparkle!
COME JOIN US FOR WEEK 2 HERE!!!