Ooooh these all sound wonderful :0)
I love the idea of a meal at cafe mickeys with the characters bringing out a cake! Would I need to book a table and ask before we arrive?
****book you're table before you go and tell them you would like a birthday cake - it's approximately €30 and yummy! You will have a character or two accompany your waiter with the cake!!****
I was also thinking maybe a ballon and minnie plush to greet her in the room at the end of the day, do you think they could do this also?
****it's very expensive -€50 for a single balloon! You can get a balloon and plush yourself and place it in the room

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For hubby I love the idea of the Wild West show! His birthday is the day we leave, do you think we would get to do that before we leave at 4??
****Afraid not. This is an extra meal/show with 6:30 and 9:30 seatings****
We have been to dlp many many times but usually stick to the same places to eat, planet Hollywood and rainforest, is there any 'must do' places to eat?
****we like the Plaza Gardens for a grwat buffet with unlimited drinks!!****
Thank you so much for your help :0)