I can see what you are saying! I don't think I could actually ask however. One because it is true that you may not be able to see a reason why they need to sit. If I come on the bus and I'm standing holding my two year old, I just don't search out for who is being "not so nice". I have been offered a seat many times and am happily thankful. If they don't offer...oh well. I don't know them or how they were brought up. I have no idea how they are feeling today. However, I better never see my son or hubby not giving up their seat, God willing they are able.