Beyond devastation

[Pinky166]

Again I have no advice but wanted to let you know we are all here for you.

My thoughts are with you & your DD.

 

[higgy66]

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that things get easier and like the others have said - Vent away on here if it will help.

Sorry I can't offer any words of wisdom but I wish you and your daughter all the best.

 

[florida sun]

Annie, Im so so sorry to hear this, Ive sent you a little pm

 

[mark&sue]

I too am sending you a pm

I feel your pain


susan

 

[Nubbedy]

Annie, So sorry to hear this has happened to you. I'm afraid I don't have any wonderful advice or access to that magic button, but want to send you lots of hugs .

I hope things get better for you, allow yourself time to grieve, as it is in a way like a bereavement. I hope you genuinely believe that you have done nothing wrong, you haven't, in fact, I think you have acted admirably. Glad you have your DD so you can get through this together, and don't think of your life being over, in fact, your new life could be just about to begin.

 

[howlongtillsummer?]

I know it is somewhere near to impossible but I would try to keep my chin up around him. He was damned lucky to get a second chance which he has well and truly blown. Don't let the ******* get you down or at least see you down.

Every day, every hour, is a step closer to when you will feel better about this. You have so much life ahead of you don't even think for a second it is over.

My friend's husband came crawling back after his mid-life crisis (2 painful years). She took him back and they are still together. I wouldn't have. Not for one second. You are a strong person so why would you want to be near someone who is prepared to hurt you so much? Take it one step at a time and move on slowly.

Easy to say I know and wishing you all the very best.

 

[Hilary]

Annie, I can't press a magic button for you, but I can add my voice to the support and compassion already shown here.

I hope posting here has helped, if only a very little - I admire your openness in putting down your thoughts and feelings, as I'm sure it cannot have been easy for you. It shows you have strength of character, and that strength will help you and Katie get through this.

Thinking of you

 

[fizz13]

I wish i could write something to make you feel better, i am so so sorry that this poor excuse of a man has done this to you and Katie and i cant imagine how hurt you feel after giving him another chance, my thoughts are with you and I hope you find the strength in each other to move on without him in your life, its not fair and not right.
Please dont give up though, 49 is not too old and there is every chance you will find happiness, there is still plenty of life to live, my biggest hugs for you hun

 

[Ware Bears]

for you and your DD