I will chime in with my .02 cents
Obviusly MK is the best. No question there
For a 2nd choice, I would actually go with Hollywood Studios
They have
Playhouse Disney 930am
Little Mermaid Show 10am
Beauty and the Beast 1045am
Meet n Greets 1130am
Playhouse Disney Lunch 1200pm
I may be off on the times
But there are also TONS of character meet and greets including Toy Story
Then go back to the hotel and rest
Come back for Star Wars6pm, Toy Story Mania7pm and Fantasmic Show8pm
Just an idea......
My 4 year old loves DHS