If I had a $1 for every time you've hated on SSR I could buy more points there!
OP, as someone who bought their first contract there, I can tell you that we've stayed at basically every other resort on those points in the last year.
@Tatebeck is pointing out that when the 2042s fall off, everyone will have less resorts to trade into, and all of us at SSR will more than likely be stuck there. While that assessment is legitimate and might become reality in 17 years, no one definitely knows what the lay of the land will be at that time. And your toddler will be an adult. You might enjoy the relaxed vibe and DS proximity of SSR and not care to trade out.
And to answer your question, I would recommend using those points to try as many 1 BRs as possible to decide for yourself what works best for your family. Everyone on here places value on different aspects of each resort. I can tell you that as a family of 5, who would greatly benefit from the extra bathroom in the 1 BRs at BLT, Kidani, and IT, we don't like any of those resorts enough to own there. And that is strictly our take, try them all and see what you love!