I ate at CRT for one of my birthday's, and that was fun, so's Akershus if she would have fun at a princess meal. I ate at Chef Mickey's for breakfast the last time I was in the World on my birthday, and honestly, I wouldn't recommend it, I liked the dinner I had there a few years ago better. Boma is good, so is California Grill like others have said.
Personally, I'd probably switch Crystal Palace to dinner, and eat there on her birthday, or just eat there for dinner and breakfast on different days. I like it much better there then at Chef Mickey's.