Cape May is a must for us, we absolutely love the breakfast there plus the character interaction is awesome. You get to see Minnie, Donald, and Goofy in their beach attire and they are so cute in them too
1900 Park Fare, not sure which one you are looking to do, but we tried the dinner last December and we didn't think it was anything special. The only character that really gave our family any time of day was Prince Charming, all the rest would just come up take a picture and sign autographs then walk away, we had our DD8 and DD6 with us too and the characters (minus the Prince) didn't talk to them, they just said hi. However, we are going to try out the breakfast there in September and are excited about it, I have heard that the food and character interaction are both very good.
We have eaten at CRT breakfast twice and enjoyed the atmosphere of the Castle very much. The food was o.k. and the character interaction was alright, but there is nothing like eating in the Castle. In September we are going to be trying dinner there (before our
MNSSHP night) and am very excited about it because the menu looks really good. But for Princess interactions that are top notch and food that is excellent, we love to go to Akershus Breakfast in the Norway Pavilion in Epcot. We always make a ADR for before the park opens which starts the day off just right. Along with Cape May, this is a must do tradition of ours.
We too are going to Crystal Palace in September, we are going for breakfast for the first time and my whole family are really really excited for this one. We have read many wonderful things about this breakfast, that we thought why not try it for ourselves....plus our ADR is before the park opens. We had tried Crystal Palace for a late lunch a few years ago and really enjoyed it, plus I am such a huge Pooh Fan (just look at my name and avatar) that it was only fitting to have breakfast with my guys.
Have a great trip, your suggestions look fine
to have some character meals. It'll be hubby and me celebrating our 4 year wedding anniversary/re-engagement. I don't want to do more than 2-3 character meals. I 
