Being um, Intimate with spouse, on trip...

[epcotfan]

I disagree with doing that after the kids are asleep but in the same room. I'll never forget when I was about 9-10 waking up to finding my mom "helping" out my dad, if you get my drift. Even as a 32 year old adult who is married now, I still shiver thinking of that night. YUK!

DITTO!!! I can't think of anything worse for a kid than waking up in the middle of the night at DISNEY and seeing mom and dad going at it in the next bed. Yuck. I must be the odd one out because there is no way I could do it with children sleeping in the next bed.
If you must, get a connecting room or a suite for a few nights.

 

[LindsayDunn228]

I'm in agreement. Don't do it with your kids in the room. ACK!

I am techically still a newlywed. When my hubby and I went to WDW we were so tired we didn't "bring in da noise, bring in da funk" the whole time we were there. 9 days without sex is not going to kill a person.

 

[powellrj]

DITTO!!! I can't think of anything worse for a kid than waking up in the middle of the night at DISNEY and seeing mom and dad going at it in the next bed. Yuck. I must be the odd one out because there is no way I could do it with children sleeping in the next bed.
If you must, get a connecting room or a suite for a few nights.

This is one of the reasons we are getting 2 bedrooms this trip. I don't want to have to explain that one to my kids!!

 

[maureen4200040]

Hi all

I think you will be too tired for sex on your trip . On previous trips I've taken my b/friend, and we did'nt have any sex for 14 nights,.

This is'nt a problem for me I'm much too tired after walking around the parks all day , the only thing I want to do is sleep... I'm quite lucky as my b/friend is trained in body massage so I got some lovely body massages on holiday . Sometimes just talking and reconnecting to each other on holiday strenghtens your relationship more.

I'm sure you will find a way round it without disturbing your kids.

 

[Cellthing]

We tend to do it when the kids are fast asleep. When we took our DD(then 3) to Disney we ended up bringing home her sister. The ONE time we snuck in a quickie on that trip (at the beginning of the trip of course since we are always so tired by the end) we ended up pregnant with a now 20 month old. This past trip we took MIL with us and knew we weren't going to get any that trip, but she ended up taking our older DD to the pool and the baby was in the crib so we took the opportunity and went with it. We have no problem going the week without it, but hotel rooms just do something to us. Guess it's just the different environment.

Everyone is different and you will get 100 different opinions on here. Don't plan it, just seize the moment if it comes around.

 

[HappyLawyer]

ok, hope this is not too graphic and offends anyone you all know how somepeople on these boards cang et, but i would not do it in the room with the children, so here is an option-bathroom there are many ways if u want pm me and i will give you some suggestions but there are many ways to do it there,

 

[Daisy'sMom]

Hopefully, my DH and I will have a connecting room with his parents, niece and nephew. If we(I) get a little noisy, will they be able to hear?

 

[HappyLawyer]

suite is not an option but we did think of that

the shower, um, dh did mention some thoughts on that,

we were thinking of having them take a bath and being quick too

one of ours sleeps like a rock the other is a light sleeper, so that MIGHT work, might not.

I can not go 9 days without exercise, you know.... romance is every minute of every day, exercise isn't.

Any more ideas??

PS DH said I should NOT ask this here, LOL

four words

toilet, sink, bathroom floor and shower

 

[HappyLawyer]

i am reading all these posts so i must ask, how can anyone be too tired for sex?

 

[scorp111]

This is a great post... we had our own BR last september... and I think we did it once or twice....

 

[ncgolfer]

There are positions available that could appear to be simply snuggling but allow for some action. That way if the kiddies eyes pop open daddy is simply laying behind mommy hugging her.

 

[HappyLawyer]

There are positions available that could appear to be simply snuggling but allow for some action. That way if the kiddies eyes pop open daddy is simply laying behind mommy hugging her.

i cannot speak for anyone else but i would not want to expose my kid to that situation, i would not want my child to wake up and have any type of visual, at leat the bathroom has a locked door, this is just me, but i cannot do it in the same room as my kid sleep or not

 

[lemondog]

This is one of the reasons we opted for a cabin. Kids in the bedroom, mommy and daddy in the murphy bed! Don't forget there is also the couch, kitchen table, kitchen counter...heck, all sorts of options!

Actually, I would have no problem doing it with my 12 month olds in the room, as long as they were asleep. I think they are too young to get it. But NO WAY would I do it with my 3yo in there, even if she was in a deep sleep. Knowing my luck she would wake up right in the midst of the hot and heavy part!

 

[newtowdw1]

We too planned for a cabin. We'll be wandering around the east coast for almost an entire month. We don't do well with moderation and abstention

We are booking them on the pirate cruise Think we can get back to the cabin, "ahem", and get back (in our car) before they're done?

Anyway, my DD has known from the time she was born. Never did she carry on like she did when we were "aheming"! She still manages to knock on the door or interupt frequently. DS doesn't seem to be psychally linked!

However, if you start to be in the bathroom together now, your kids will think it's normal for you to share on vacation. As DD8 said into the phone one time, "Hang on, they're in the bathroom." See, all innocent.

 

[F1Julie]

I'm not sure how old the OP's kids are, but if they are old enough, why not send them to a kids club for an evening? I've heard that the kids have a blast and you could maybe even have dinner before heading back to your room.

 

[PneumaticTransit]

Am I the only one who is getting a little freaked out by the appearance of this guy on this topic ?

 

[missmissy]

Last time we went to Disney CRB I was about to fall sleep when the people in the next room started having fun. I thought is that what I think it is and it was my MOM & DAD. GROSS I was 28 and it is still not right to know what your mom and dad are doing. I told my sister who was in a third room next time she can share the headboard wall with them.

 

[magicmouse2]

Great reason for the DVC 2 bed homes what about 2 connecting rooms at the values? Otherwise lock yourselves in the bathroom for a few minutes. Pick a resort with a large bathroom like CBR!! or a deluxe for a few days. Plus the moderates now come with privacy curtains to screen off the sink area from bed area! but please DONT DO IT ON THE BALCONIES!!!

 

[HappyLawyer]

this is such a great thread, but if you are on property, i agree with the kids club, we used the one at pr and it was nice i think 8 bucks per kid per hour or something like that

 

[Gymbomom]

I have no advice or comments....but can I say...I have gotten the BIGGEST kick out of reading this thread.