Now, my question is buying resale or direct. Of course, the salesmen said "direct is better deal because of perks such as cruise discounts" but I'm not sure if that is accurate or more of a pitch.
It's a sales pitch with a grain of truth. You can't use resale points for cruises, or ABD, or non-
DVC Disney resorts and a few other things.
But to fully evaluate those "perks," you have to look carefully at their cost. Not just the added cost of buying direct, but more importantly the points costs of those options. If you look at the points costs, I think you'll quickly decide you don't want those "perks."
Those restrictions however, do NOT include RCI. Regardless of how points are purchased, they can be used for exchanges outside of DVC via RCI.
The other thing to keep in mind about any and all "perks" is that they are NOT guaranteed. They can and do change, sometimes with little or no notice.
Can someone tell me the real difference in buying direct or resale?
The buy-in price is the difference.
Some will talk about the quickness, sureness, and ease of financing purchasing direct. My personal opinion is that anyone who is focused on those things is missing the forest for the trees. Don't be distracted by fleeting benefits; keep your eye on the main pros and cons...not the little stuff.
The other benefit you will hear is that you can't buy brand new resorts resale because there are none for sale yet. Currently, that's VGF and soon, Poly. That is true; the question is whether the huge price premium is worth the benefit to your family. It's not to my family, but YMMV.
Also, where do I look to find info on resale contracts and prices?
The banner ad at the top of the page is for the Timeshare Store, the leading resale broker and longtime sponsor of the DIS DVC boards. I've bought and sold through them with great results both ways every time. Unlike one or two other brokers, TTS has a great deal of experience and market knowledge and they have always delivered great customer service in all of my dealings with them.
You can also Google dvc resales and find other brokers.
One thing to know about resale is that the brokers are closely regulated by Florida's very tight real estate industry regulators. The resale brokers have to meet exactly the same standards as Disney itself.