based on an assignment I had today

[Sparx]

Okay, so my teacher told us to write down 25 qualities we want in a best friend.
the next day 25 qualities we want in someone we would like to marry.

they were virtually identical.

So what do you look for in a best friend/boyfriend/girlfriend?

 

[Captain Brain]

Bestfriend:

Able to listen to me
Talk to me
Understand how I feel on issues
Not care about my hobbies

GF

Basically the same

 

[Arielfn93]

Bestfriend-

wont care about how I look
will be by my side when I feel sad
doesn't ditch me when they find a new friend
will listen to me, and talk back

Boyfriend

Same practicly, because I practicly want my boyfriend to be a best friend.

 

[Vannah]

Best Friend
Loyalty
Honesty
Listens to me
Includes me in things
Doesn't ignore me just because their new friend doesn't like me

Boyfriend
Loylaty
Honesty
Listens
Talks to me in front of friends/doesn't ignore me because it's not the "cool" thing to talk to your girlfriends in school

 

[WORLDwarQUIFFLE]

I don't believe qualities have anything to do with any sort of relationship.
I have friends that are completely different from one another.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I want a friend who'd take me for what and who I am.

Same thing with a boyfriend.

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

boyfriend-

listen
laughter
caring
love
not embaressed
not listening to friends about what they think of me.
liking me for who i am

best friend-
not caring what i look like when i get up in the morning
talking
listening
laughing
caring
loving
stay by your side no matter what.

 

[SplshMtnLvr28]

best friend:
funny.
good personality.
fun to be around.
listens to your problems.
cares about you.

boyfriend:
pretty much the same.
but it would be a plus if he was hot.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

best friend:
funny.
good personality.
fun to be around.
listens to your problems.
cares about you.

boyfriend:
pretty much the same.
but it would be a plus if he was hot.

. . . What if your "dream boyfriend" fit all of these qualities, but wasn't "hot?"

 

[CrazyChik]

. . . What if your "dream boyfriend" fit all of these qualities, but wasn't "hot?"

she said it would be a plus
she didnt say he had to be

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Ignore that post. . .

 

[Sue88]

Bestfriend and boyfriend

Considerate
good attitude
kind to others
thinks life is what you make of it
loyal
imaginative
sense of humor
well groomed

 

[Babyjustrun]

Best Friend:

Happy.
Laughs a lot.
Good humor.
Nice to other people, friendly.
Someone, who won't just leave me standing there looking stupid when they see someone they know.
Knows I don't like to feel left out.
Isn't too clingy
Understands that I'm not as wealthy as them.
Someone who likes to have fun, but is more than actions. A friend you can talk to and have fun with.
Not rude

Boyfriend:
Kind.
Cuddly.
Listens to me whine.
Doesn't call me negative.
Actually listens to me when I rant on about nothing important.
Makes me happy with a single smile.
Hates it when I'm sad
Makes me laugh, and laughs a lot with other people
Loves my friends like FAMILY
Knows when I want a hug and when I don't.

Most of the qualities are the same, but in a boyfriend, I want a romantic side, a sweet side. Someone who'll send me cute notes when I'm having a bad day.
This kind of guy doesn't exist to in my life, only in books.