Thanks for that! Now I'm really confused. I thought a "suite" had a separate living area. Now I'm curious just what the OP was offered as a replacement.
I think it's the "nicer" of the Polynesian club buildings-The Tonga-with a King bed. The Polynesian gets a lot of love from people and seems to be the fan favorite with a lot of longtime Disney folks-so I imagine it was a highly emotional/personal selection for OP.
The timeline I followed was they were informed the room was unavailable on their travel day, and put in a family suite at the Contemporary Resort for night one-unclear if club level. Nights two-four were at the Grand Floridian, unclear on the room type and if it was club level.
I think the bulk of OP's frustration was regarding the handling of the situation. Last minute notice, not feeling listened to, not getting the attention requested from management, being fully charged for a room they did not get, and on top of that having two mishaps with Disney Floral-at least one of them costing over $400.
That, paired with the disappointment of losing the original room was probably a lot to take in. It sounds like there were some unproductive phone and counter interactions had as well.
Probably would have been ideal for guest services to have:
A. Empathized/Acknowledged (Maybe happened, but not consistently or in a manner that felt genuine to the OP)
B. Offered options (Pickings may have been slim, but giving OP some degree of control in the situation would be best practice)
C. Compensated in some way (be it food credits, comping the floral mishap, discounting the room, etc. There were options)
At any rate, we won't really know until OP discloses/clarifies. Messages so far have been rushed and emotional, understandably so.