Back when people used to dress up for everything

In the early 90's I flew to Indiana with my future in-laws and my husband (then boyfriend). I wore a nice jacket with dress shorts and high heels. When they saw me, they were taken aback just as I was when I saw them! I always remembered that you dressed up on flights (my parents always did) so I did. They were wearing shorts and t-shirts. I realized when we got on the plane that I was definitely overdressed. I still get teased about that! When my parents went to Disney World for the first time with us, they dressed up on the plane. I tried telling them, I really did. I told them not to, but NO NO we are not looking sloppy on our flight! Yep, they sat in coach too! But wait for this...they did not change out of their clothes and mom wore her dress and high heels and dad suit and tie and dress shoes. It was a hot July day and they walked into Epcot dressed to the nines. They were drenched in sweat and there were a lot of stares. My dad looked as though he was Walt Disney himself going to a business meeting at the park!! :rotfl2:
 
I appreciate being comfortable when traveling or at work, but casual often crosses the line to ratty for some people. I don’t know if I would want to dress up for everything, but I do like to look presentable when I leave my house. I always put a touch of makeup on and make sure my clothes are clean and decently presentable. I can’t help it, it was how I was raised. If you look like you care about yourself, other people will too.

I get that sometimes you are in the middle of a project, run out of supplies and run out to Lowes/Home Depot/etc. Why change in this example? But, for going out to lunch or to go shopping, and certainly for work and events I think people could try to look nice, even “dressed up” maybe. So, I guess I would like a happy medium of the formal days of the past and the super casual go-as-you-are even slept in clothes look of today.
 
In the early 90's I flew to Indiana with my future in-laws and my husband (then boyfriend). I wore a nice jacket with dress shorts and high heels. When they saw me, they were taken aback just as I was when I saw them! I always remembered that you dressed up on flights (my parents always did) so I did. They were wearing shorts and t-shirts. I realized when we got on the plane that I was definitely overdressed. I still get teased about that! When my parents went to Disney World for the first time with us, they dressed up on the plane. I tried telling them, I really did. I told them not to, but NO NO we are not looking sloppy on our flight! Yep, they sat in coach too! But wait for this...they did not change out of their clothes and mom wore her dress and high heels and dad suit and tie and dress shoes. It was a hot July day and they walked into Epcot dressed to the nines. They were drenched in sweat and there were a lot of stares. My dad looked as though he was Walt Disney himself going to a business meeting at the park!! :rotfl2:
Your parents sound like mine.
 
I don't think my dad has owned jeans since he left the farm to go college. He always associated denim with farm work. His general wardrobe is khaki pants. My mom eventually started wearing denim on occasion but they were still generally "slacks" and not "jeans." We kids were allowed to wear jeans, but overalls were an absolute "NO!" My sister and I really fought this rule until eventually mom explained to us that dad had to wear his chore coveralls to school as a child because they couldn't afford "school clothes" and we understood and gave up.

It seems to me like the big switch from more formal dress came as we entered the 1970's.
 

Never met any of my grandparents.
Never met mine either, 3 had passed before I was born, 2 of them passed more than 35 years before I was born.

A previous boss put out a note about sloppy dress in the office and suggested "we wear what we wear to our Grandparents house" My perception of Grandparents, based on my experience with my kids and their grandparents is, grandparents are just happy to see their grandkids. They don't care what they are wearing. My mom never knew what to buy our kids for Christmas, so she gave us money to buy gifts for the, we'd drop them off and she would wrap them and put them under the tree. Over a number of Christmases she gave our son a LOT of Ecko clothing, very little of it fit to wear to school, but my mom WAS delighted to see how much he wore those clothes.
 
I am 60 and remember people wearing dresses and suits to Disneyland, and just about everywhere else. I started flying in 1976 and all were dressed up. I lament the passing of wearing nice clothes on nice occasions.
 
Of course I do; I still dress up when the occasion warrants it. Also, I'm somewhat overweight, and more professional clothes are usually more flattering than very casual clothes. My normal work wardrobe is dress pants, chunky heels, an actual blouse, and some kind of jacket or cardigan because the building is chilly.

When I first started working full time it was in the back room of a university Library, and yet I wore suits, hose and heels; we all did, because we wanted to avoid looking dowdy. (It was the early 80's; and past the "decency" standards of my childhood, thank goodness. I clearly remember when my older sister had to start wearing a girdle to school every day in high school -- because not wearing one was unladylike; too much jiggle potential. ) I also still remember grilling my mother about why on earth she always wore only one glove when I was a child; she never really would answer that question, but over time I realized that she hating wearing them, and she cheated by only wearing one and carrying the other with her handbag when she left the house. I, OTOH, love gloves, especially nice kid gloves, and having to keep track of the unworn glove seemed like a PITA to me. (Mom's fake-out meant that she could not put the second glove IN her handbag, of course, because the fiction was that she had only taken it off momentarily, and actually putting it away would have made the ruse obvious.)

DH normally wears a suit every day in case he has to take a court appearance (not right now, as the courts are closed.) I still wear suits to business conferences. I own jeans, but I don't wear them to work. (I will wear them outside of the house though, which I will not do with so-called "active" clothing unless I am literally exercising at the time. The one public place that I will wear that sort of thing is ironically Disney World, because of all the walking in the heat.) My workplace accepts very casual clothing (though not shorts), but I prefer a more professional wardrobe for myself; it makes me feel more confident.

The one "normal" piece of modern clothing I absolutely will not wear in public is sneakers -- I hate sneakers, and only wear them to places that require them to protect the floors. (FWIW, I was 11 when I got my first pair of sneakers, which were strictly for wearing during school gym. ) At WDW I wear sports sandals or hiking shoes, because they can take getting wet and not chafe my feet.
 
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My parents never had many casual clothes when I grew up. Both were required to dress in suits at their jobs...even mom. It wasn't till my mom had long retired that she got a sudden whim to own a pair of jeans. She wasn't physically able at the time to go to a store to try on different styles, so I selected what I thought might fit and she might like. She looked *amazing* at 80 years old in her first pair of jeans. She didn't much care for them and they soon became mine. Oh well...at least she gave it a shot.
 
My mom worked for an airline and growing up (and through college) we would fly stand-by all the time. This was in the 80s and 90s. In order to fly standby, company policy was, slacks/shirt/tie at a minimum for the men, and whatever dressy clothes existed at the time for women (blouses? giant Michael Jackson Shoulder-pad blazers?). So whenever we'd go on vacation, for our flights, I'd be wearing a blazer, dress shirt, slacks, and a clip-on tie.

Now-a-days you are lucky to see people in something dressier than PJs at the airport. Though with how uncomfortable flying is these days, I cant exactly blame people.

I was thinking this same thing when I was reading through the thread. I'm in my mid 30's, but when I was a kid we looked nice to fly. Not a suit, but we wore a nice pair of pants and a button down or nice shirt. My uncle worked for the airline, and when he would fly with us, he'd wear a suit.

Church was the same way. I didn't wear a suit, but dressed nicely. I can remember my grandmothers and my great aunt (didn't know my grandfathers) always dressed nicely until later in their lives (early 2000's where comfort started taking over-and they still weren't "bum" looking).

Now is so much different. Even me, when I fly I wear something comfortable. I don't wear "PJ" pants that I see alot of, but if its summer I most likely will have on a pair of basketball shorts as I call them and a t-shirt. In the winter I do have a nicer pair of pants that are very comfortable that I'll wear with a polo/button down. If I go to church (which I don't really do anymore) I would have a nice pair of pants or shorts on with a nice shirt. But the few times I've been in the last few years surprises me.

You can still look somewhat nice with a t-shirt and mesh type shorts or long pants on. I can't understand why so many people wear pajama pants (plaid/sports team/even disney) out and about.
 
Please excuse the photo of a photo. This is my Oma and Opa with my dad and uncle in the late 50s. Opa flew for KLM and they lived in Aruba (hence the boys in shorts, and Oma in a sleeveless dress.) I love this photo and definitely love the way Oma and Opa looked so classy getting on the plane. Oma and Opa Plane Square.jpg
 
I've never seen my grandparents or my father in PJ, ever! People definitely dressed much better back then, even just to sit around the house.
 
In my 50s. Grandparents were always dressed up - always. Parents were always dressed at least business casual, even when doing yard work. Me - I have limits, but am very casual when not working.

The good old days - you can keep them. :crazy:
 
My mom worked for an airline and growing up (and through college) we would fly stand-by all the time. This was in the 80s and 90s. In order to fly standby, company policy was, slacks/shirt/tie at a minimum for the men, and whatever dressy clothes existed at the time for women (blouses? giant Michael Jackson Shoulder-pad blazers?). So whenever we'd go on vacation, for our flights, I'd be wearing a blazer, dress shirt, slacks, and a clip-on tie.

Now-a-days you are lucky to see people in something dressier than PJs at the airport. Though with how uncomfortable flying is these days, I cant exactly blame people.

OMG, YES!! You could always spot the non-revs because we were the only ones dressed up with suit/ties and dresses with pantyhose in the dead of summer! My parents have flight privileges because of my career, and before they flew I told them what was acceptable attire. Well, my Dad wore his suit and tie but had a chambray colored shirt, and the gate agent told him that looked too close denim and he had to change. My Dad called me so worried he got me into trouble. LOL.

Just this last year I finally relaxed my stance and went a little more casual as a non-rev. Don't get me wrong, I never went back to dresses and heels when it went away, but I never wore jeans when I knew I'd get up front in First Class. Now, I will wear them because everyone does, and they are nice jeans (no holes or deconstructed jeans) but still no tee shirts. Always a blouse or sweater.

And you'll never catch me in public in pajama pants. I will wear my black yoga pants with long tunic sweaters on occasion, but they almost look like skinny pants.

And it is a rare site to see my Mom in jeans. I think she owned 2 pairs my entire life. One in the 80's and maybe one in the 2000's. Always wears slacks.
 
These days, styles are a lot more laid back than it used to be. The 80s looked formal in comparison to today. There are days today I see people dress nicely to do some things here and there. Although, I notice people do get some odd stares from others. It goes to show you, it's not common to see in society today, and that "dressing up" still looks like dressing down. People don't put effort in dolling up to do simple tasks like going to the market or doing a couple of small errands. It's understandable. I do it too, because sometimes i just want to get what I need done quickly. However, most of what I own are nicer looking skirts and dresses.

Most multi-purpose department stores seems to reflect the style more and more. Walk into any Wal-Mart, and you will rarely see anything that resembles dressy. Most, if not all of what they stock is loungewear and simple clothes. Target has a little more upscale selection, but most is still loungewear. I get most of my clothes from Macy's, JC Penney or Amazon now.
 
I used to have to wear a coat and tie when I worked my last job (which I hated). When I started the job I currently work, one of the first things my supervisor, bless him, said was "And you don't have to wear a suit around here."

Now I put on a tie if I have to go to a wedding or funeral--that's it. And if the rules changed and a coat and tie became mandatory, I'd have to think about whether I was going to stay. That's how badly I hate wearing a coat and tie. It's not quite an anxiety thing, but it's in that area code.
 

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