Back and married, and what a roller coaster!

Whilykit

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Hi all!
I don't post much - I really only came here for research, so I thought it was important for me to be honest about how things really went during out stay for our DFTW.

The wedding itself was amazing - the floral the room, the food, the detail were impeccable. The planners were top notch and have this down to a T. We had the most wonderful, warm , sentimental ceremony I could have asked for. The lighting was perfect, the feeling was great, it went off without a hitch! The best part was when my now husband suprised me with the coach after our staged exit. What a thrill!! :banana:

The night went almost perfectly except from some snags with the grooms mens tuxes ( wrong sizes were delivered from After Hours) Be very careful with After Hours, all the tuxes were wrong, and my husband felt like an idiot dressed in a tux that was 2 sizes too big! With help of our planner and a dozen pins, he looked great. Of course no one picked up the phone when he or our wedding planner called for some help. Noone from that company was reachable on a Saturday. They were fitted for 7 tuxes from After Hours here in NJ, there was over a dozen wrong fitting issues with them. A dozen! Not so good! After looking at the sizeing, the problems occured down in Fla., it seems the wrong sizes were pulled and shipped. Horrible experience with them. Beware.

The food blew me away our guests were just amazed. The cake was to DIE for, I cant wait to post a pic, DFTW went far above and beyond to make a vision come true, they hit the mark right on the bullseye! :woohoo:

Then the last dance was played.. and it was time to go home. We noticed our camera was not on our sweetheart table anymore. It was there during the cake cutting, and gone after. I was a mess. It was a brand new camera, and I have to be honest, we felt like no one really cared. We were told a family member took it, we were told we lost it, we were told it would show up. All of my pictures were gone from the week. All of them, all the wonderful memories we created with family that lives half way around the world. Our gut feeling after checking with out guests is that a GF staff member took it off our table. We were on a riser, and the only people up there were me my husband and the servers. Alas, no camera, no one cares :guilty:
I feel so bad saying all this and accusing people, but it was best friends and close family and not one of our guests would have taken it, plus we checked everyone on our buses for it.
Who knows what happened, what I do know, is we were told 'lost and found forms' were filled out, and that is all they can do. With the amount we paid for the wedding I am saddened by this. We thought we would be taken care of - or at least compensated in some way. All those pictures lost, Hoop dee Doo review - rehearsal dinner at Italy Isola, Animal Kingdom with 16 family members, all wearing the Tshirts I made for them. The wedding was great, we are SO very happy in our lives, but I feel a bit slighted by the place I trusted the most above all else, the magical dream was being shattered.

It came to a crushing halt when the day before we were to leave, housekeeping threw out/lost the most precious item to me. A blanket my mother had knitted for me when I was born. It was my something old I brought, and it had been fine in the room for 5 nights! It was always laid neatly on top of a pile or a pillow. Yet, this day, it was gone, we tore the room apart, we begged and pleaded with the staff. We received the same lost and found form and a sad face, yet no blanket, no camera no comfort.

I feel like my life with my DH is the best I could have asked for, and I feel bad complaining to you all, but I dont want anyone thinking that their belongings are safe (even the non valuable ones) just because it was Disney. My aunt took off a pair of shoes to dance, she came back and they were gone.

I am surprised that we were not offered anything for the items that were lost/misplaced/stolen. Disney did not do a thing for our troubles. Which just makes me so so sad, I held them in the highest regard.

I know some of you are going to get your backs up reading this, as I would have if someone was bashing Disney before all this happened to me. Yet now, I feel that its only fair for me to be honest and say what I feel in my heart, since it was a bit broken. I felt like I was being ignored- everything is great, until something goes wrong :( I bought myself a new camera today, I just couldnt stand it! I cant replace the blanket from my mother, I am just keeping my fingers crossed that Disney will redeem itself in my eyes. Maybe a magical package will show up with the camera wrapped in the blanket??!??

I wish all of you who are yet to go and experience your DFTW good luck, you wont be dissapointed! The night was a magical affair! Just dont put your trust in them the way we did.
Pics and stories to come!
 
Aw i'm so sorry you lost these precious things. I too hope and pray your items show up. Unfortunately there are dishonset people that work for Disney just like anywhere else. I agree they could have treated you alittle better and at least pretended to care.

Glad you had such a amazing Fairytale Wedding
 
Well, first of all, I'm glad your wedding was so special. I'm so sorry you lost such special items that are unreplaceable. I can only imagine what it feels like to lose something so sentimental to you at such a sentimental time in your life. :hugs:

Like you, I'm very surprised with Disney. Usually they are so quick to compensate for things that go wrong. I would think about writing a letter or calling someone in upper management. I agree with what someone else said, like everywhere else, there are always dishonest people. But for some reason we all expect that Disney to magically erase that from people. But I would see if you could get some sort of compensation. I can understand what they're saying about the camera (I understand how hard it is), but I do understand that when things are left it's really hard to be liable. HOWEVER, I still think it's awful. But your blanket being thrown away is unacceptable. That's ridiculous. You shouldn't have to put stuff in your room away. I would seriously call, and hopefully you'll get a little pixie dust, like a free weekend stay or something for all your troubles and pain! :wizard:

Hang in there and enjoy your newly wedding bliss!! Congratulations!!!
 
I'm sorry to hear that things went wrong. Unfortuantely I can understand things turning up missing. Hopefully the hotel manager will comp you or at least apologize for the missing items.

The morning following our DLR wedding housekeeping woke us up before 7am asking if we were ready to check out---uh, no! We went to take soem things to our family members rom and when we returned we had been checked out ad our remaining items gone! We weren't even gone very long! We lost table cameras, cards containing money, momentos such as the sign posted at the entrance to our reception (with our names on it), my MOH bouquet, and a few other things. We complained to the manager and were compensated with a two night stay in a suite as well as two 3 day park hopper tickets. It didn't make up for the missing items (as we never figured out what all was missing, nor was it ever found) but it was a nice gesture on their part.
 

I'm so sorry that happened to you. A few dissapointing events occurred during my wedding too...and after been very upset about it for many days...my husband finally told me to make the best of our wedding memories, and hold on to the positive, otherwise I might always associate the memories of our wedding day with some negative actions of certain people. So, while I'm still dissapointed, I'm purposefully filling my mind and my heart with all the great things that happened that day. ...because there were so many beautiful moments, and wonderful things....and my advice to you is to do the same thing. I'm sure your wedding was wonderful, always remember the great parts of that day. :) Plus, maybe getting a voodoo doll in the shape of a theiving Disney CM, so that you can stick pins in it...might make you feel better too. ;) :rotfl:
 
I really don't know what to say, but I am so sorry this happened to you and I am disgusted with the way Disney is handling it. The pictures and blanket are not easily replaceable items- they are history and memories. I hope they turn up some how. I agree, you should definitely write a note to the manager of the hotel and to someone at wedding/event planning. I have found that when I don’t say something, I feel worse.
I appreciate that you spoke up about what happened to you. As a future Disney bride, it puts things in perspective. Yes, bad things do happy at Disney as they do everywhere (and no one should feel bad for saying it). We just expect a lot more from the Happiest Place on Earth.
Congratulations on your marriage! I am glad it was a wonderful day for you filled with love, family, and coaches! I am very excited to see the cake pictures. Again, congratulations!
 
RangerPooh said:
I'm sorry to hear that things went wrong. Unfortuantely I can understand things turning up missing. Hopefully the hotel manager will comp you or at least apologize for the missing items.

The morning following our DLR wedding housekeeping woke us up before 7am asking if we were ready to check out---uh, no! We went to take soem things to our family members rom and when we returned we had been checked out ad our remaining items gone! We weren't even gone very long! We lost table cameras, cards containing money, momentos such as the sign posted at the entrance to our reception (with our names on it), my MOH bouquet, and a few other things. We complained to the manager and were compensated with a two night stay in a suite as well as two 3 day park hopper tickets. It didn't make up for the missing items (as we never figured out what all was missing, nor was it ever found) but it was a nice gesture on their part.
Oh, that is really horrible! I am sorry and I hope it did not ruin your special day for you. I will have to remember not to leave my room unguarded (sad, but true).
 
I am slowly getting over it, my family is showering me with their pictures which is wonderful, at least we have some!
I know every wedding has its hiccups and if I wasnt happy with who I married I know this would be completely overwhelming, the silver lining is that I am so very much in love and happy to be starting my life with him.

I hope these hiccups dont prevent me from going back .. my family is starting to plan a trip next christmas, and my first response was .. ehh, we'll see. :(
 
firstly, CONGRATULATIONS on your marriage!

Secondly, I'm so sorry you no longer have your precious things, but have you tried calling lost property again and again? I remember there was a thread a few months ago about a guy who lost his camera with pics of his children on, and after trying lost property several times, it turned up. Fingers crossed for you and please try not to let it overshadow the good memories of your special day.

That was soooooo sweet of your now DH to surprise you with the carriage. What flavour cake did you have? Can't wait to see some pic's!
 
I am sorry to hear about your lost/stolen items. I too have an idealized picture of Disney in my head and think that there are no bad people there. Since you were honest enough to share this story with us, I will know to be extremely careful with our belongings and stash certain things where only we will find them. I will also let my family know to keep an eye on their personal belongings as well.

I am glad your wedding went so well and that your husband ordered the coach for you!!! THat was soooooooooooo sweet!! :love: YOu are blessed. YOu have a wonderful family.

I agree with the others. Call or write to upper management. CC everyone. Let them know you are upset. YOu paid to have your fairy tale wedding there and I would expect them to take care of you. Even if it's a few free nights at a resort or hopper passes... anything to try to compensate.

Keep focusing on the wonderful things though and the fact that you married your sweetheart. Now you can start your own fairytale. Congratulations!!! :goodvibes
 
I am very curious to know - where did you have your reception. I think this is important to know for someone planning. We need to keep our eyes out on the staff if we are having our reception there too! And hotel did you stay in? THanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I just feel horrible for you that all that happened - i can only imagine if the camera thing happened to me.. i would be devastated!!!!!!!!
 
Well it sounds like thanks to masterful work on this board, the blanket has been located! I dont have it yet, but it has been found!I am trying to verify currently!

The recpetion was a the Grand Floridian - and this def happened later in the night. I dont know if I mentioned the shoes that are missing too? Those have not shown as of yet.
No sign of the camera yet, not like i expect anyone to come forward with it - that would be too good to be true.
 
Whilykit said:
Well it sounds like thanks to masterful work on this board, the blanket has been located! I dont have it yet, but it has been found!I am trying to verify currently!

YAY for finding the blanket!! :banana: :cheer2: :woohoo: That was something that could not be replaced. Neither can the pictures on the camera, however, it would give you an excuse to get the families together again for a vacation/party and take some more. :teeth:
 
I am SO HAPPY they found your blanket!

I had a 'sort of similar' experience in Myrtle Beach this summer. I have a 'my first disney bear' that I had bought when we went to WDW after my father passed away. Even though I am *cough* 29 years old now that thing still meant the world to me! When we checked out, I guess it got wrapped up in the sheets from the bed, and left behind. I called housekeeping frantically every day for 2 weeks and they didn't really seem to care until I burst into tears. However, it was never recovered. It infuriates me to think that someone found it while they were cleaning and kept it for their kid or something. I know I could just go buy another one, but it would never be the same. Due to this happening to me, I was almost in tears reading your initial post. I'm so happy it worked out!!!! :goodvibes


PS Thanks for the heads up about After Hours. We were going to use them!
 
Oh, I am so glad they found your blanket! I still have my childhood blanket, and if anything happened to it, I would be devastated.
 
Hey - I would definately complain to someone and I still sleep with my childhood blanket and I am not ashamed to say it- I would die if something happened to it - my good friend and bridesmaid has a bunny that she still has and sleeps with - everyone has a quirk and that is mine - needless to say that I am back and married too - I am sorry to hear that you lost something at the GF....
 
Im so sorry that all of this happened, but i am glad they finally located your blanket!! Im also glad that you had a wonderful wedding!!

My camera, too, was stolen while at WDW. It was probably by another guest, but we had a whole trips worth of memories on that one camera...it's true, just because you are at WDW, it doesn't mean your belongings are safe in any way! I hope the camera sshows up for you eventually!
 
I'm so sorry about your belongings being taken and getting no satisfaction from anyone right after it happened.

I'm thrilled to hear they found your blanket and I hope it comes home in perfect condition!

I still have a bunny that is very special, my Mom always said he'd go down the aisle sitting on the train of my dress LOL. I was to afraid to bring him and have something happen so he just traveled with me in spirit.
 












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