social security-i'm interested to see if one of the proposals for changing the program is instituted. as you've experienced w/ your parents the social security income to a household can drop greatly upon the death of one spouse-the proposal is some kind of new formula that would take into consideration the benefits of both spouses to come up with a survivor's benefit amount (so instead of losing 100% of your late spouse's benefit it might be more like losing just a portion of it which would be added on to the surviving spouse's ss benefit).
I see the point ... for example, my parents are each drawing a SS check and a pension check. They have tons of money coming in and are living well (in spite of having only scant savings). However, my stepfather is quite ill and will probably not live much longer. When he dies, my mother will lose two of those four checks ... but her housing, utilities and car expenses will remain fairly stable.
I think most people plan their retirement as if both spouses will live the same life span ... but, yes, for the vast majority of couples, one of them will live to see the household budget slashed.
To make it worse, after the first spouse dies, the second spouse may (eventually) need more income than the first one did. Consider this: I'm younger and healthier than my husband, and if genetics are any indication, I will live more years. In our case, the likelihood is that when he reaches his declining years, he will have me to take care of him. That is, I'll be able to drive, take care of the house, provide meals and care ... and those things won't cost him money. When I myself reach those declining years, I won't have a spouse upon which to lean, so I'll need more money to pay for housekeeping, rides, etc. We have thought this through in our retirement planning.
The fantasy here among the Seattle High School students is getting into computer science at UW or Cal Poly so you get make 6 figures right out of college working at
Amazon, Alphabet, Apple, or Facebook.
I assume the percentage of kids who get those dream jobs are about the same as those who get into the NBA or make it as singers?
that’s what I think too..the whole discriminating against single people. Lol
Eh, if you're a single parent who dies young, your income would still go to your young children.
On the other hand, if I died right now -- I'm in my early 50s -- my family would lose every penny of my SS. My children are past 18 years old, and since I'm not drawing a benefit yet, my husband would never get any of my benefits.
A number of things about Social Security are far from ideal, but I understand that we need it -- without it, a whole lot of elderly people would have literally nothing.
the flip side of this is kids see their parents/themselves experience living a certain lifestyle and have no clue that the parents were/are financially supplemented by THEIR parents, in hock up to their eyeballs and haven't a penny in savings let alone any retirement savings ...
Agree. With credit cards (or parental help), it's not easy to see who's really financially secure. (Which is the premise of the book The Millionaire Next Door.)
... I retired 4 years ago but can’t seem to actually stop working.
Next year will be my last, but I don't anticipate actually leaving to be a problem!
I think it needs to come from both places ...
Ideally, yes.
Parents who haven't handled money well /don't have information to share with their children can still serve as a cautionary tale.
Mine did. In college I realized I could grow up to do better than my parents had, so I spent many long hours in the library inhaling all the books I could find on finance, frugal living, investments, etc. At that point in my life I was living hand-to-mouth, so I couldn't USE most of the information I gleaned, but I learned -- and once I started earning, I put my plans into action, and I have never been sorry.