Dis703
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My opinion maybe unpopular. The plaintiffs seem to be asking for more that what ADA requires. That is a given, no matter how it is worded. I read their complaints and I read responses that say things like, "with planning," or "utilizing FP+ and DAS one can go on the same ride a couple of times," etc. I come to where is personal responsibility?
I read the responses of the Moderators here and read how they are making the DAS work for them and their situations. Another example is my DD who is neurologically compromised. One of the problems with her challenge is that she has severe visual perceptual problems and visual integration issues. She can "see" but, she can't "see" if that makes sense. Therefore, we have to make sure we sit as close to front and center as possible and try to limit the amount of visual stuff between her and the main attraction. For example, at the movie theater, ballet, ball games, etc. we have to make sure our seats are such that she is no more than a certain number rows back. My DD has never seen Fantasmic! before. We are going to Disneyland at Christmastime. I am having to purchase a dining package at Disneyland just so my DD can "see" Fantasmic! It is taking personal responsibility. We will probably not eat most of what is on the menu, but, for her to enjoy something, that is what I have to do. We have to be willing to sit on the curb and play card games waiting for a parade just so my DD can "see" the parade. That is what we have to do, that is what it takes. The GAC/DAS doesn't help in this kind of situation. It helps her for the wait times. However, we are willing to pay for MaxPass so that we can accommodate her ourselves. She does a great job advocating for herself and along with that advocating for her needs, she has learned what she needs and how to best accommodate her needs. She has also learned, and I previously learned, what situations bothered her and to avoid them - especially when we couldn't accommodate her needs.
I think this goes along with life. For example, a co-worker was talking about Trick-or-Treating last night. His 5 year old son had issues with a particular "scary house." They learned to avoid houses with scary, "fake" zombie like people in front. They didn't expect the houses to take down their decorations because it upset their son.
Therefore, I don't understand asking/suing for excess accommodations. If your child requires more than the usual accommodations or can't reasonably be accommodated then maybe that isn't the right activity for them. Disney isn't a right.
I agree completely. I have a child on the spectrum and kids with ADHD, anxiety and all with severe food allergies. There have always been things that we just don't do because we know that we can't or at least shouldn't. In regards to food allergies we will never be having a birthday party at Chucky Cheese because it's simply not safe for my kids. Not only can they not provide my boys with safe food, the entire environment is unsafe because of the likelihood of cross contamination everywhere. Should I expect for them to go over the top and provide completely off menu food and clean the place top to bottom to remove food proteins from their restaurant to make it safe for my boys? When we go to Disney I research and plan extensively. We bring food, we order groceries and I have backups at the parks every day even when I'm planning on ordering food just in case. Disney is great with allergies in general but it's on me as a parent to make sure we go where they can best accommodate their needs rather than to go somewhere that they don't have what they need and demand they provide it anyhow.
Where does it end? I have horrible motion sickness. Even with pills I can't ride everything. Should I be able to? Should they have ride versions that are tamer so I get to ride everything? I never go to parks like Six Flags because the majority of rides I couldn't handle. There are plenty of activities we've avoided with my boys because of anxiety issues and risky behavior/difficulty with impulse control. Not every place or activity is going to be able to fit everyone's needs. I get the desire to want to do Disney, but it's a huge park with tens of thousands of daily guests to accommodate and what they are asking for is just unreasonable. There wouldn't be a way for them to provide what they are asking without it significantly effecting the way they operate their rides or hindering the experience of other guests. Even then as pointed out with ride break downs, weather closures, etc. it's still impossible to every guarantee a max 10-15 minute wait. And if they allowed that for rides and attractions would they need to start providing the same for buses, restaurant service, etc?
I feel for them and understand wanting to provide this experience for their children, but I think they are being more emotional than realistic about it.