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I am sorry to say that this fix no longer works for me either. Hopefully someone will post another way to check on previous posts of a DISer.
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While I agree its important to get a level of trust, I'd also like to point out that several DVC owners have decided not to rent to a particular person when the person wanted too much assurance, too many phone calls, or too much detail. This is a situation which requires trust on both sides, but it is also a situation where most members can find a less "high maintenance" home for their points. ... To use a rather sexist analogy - no girl wants to date a guy who cheats on her, but no guy wants to date a girl who calls him every half hour on his cell phone to check on him either.
..... I can recall one instance where the first email I received from a would be renter basically said "do you have two references, I need a contract, and oh yeah, is that your lowest price." Okay, that one was going to be high maintenance on several levels and I just said no thank you and moved on. ....
I just wonder how many people looking for points just sort of get ignored by members because they manage to annoy the person they are doing business with at some point in the process. And while it isn't NICE, I can see being passive aggressive about just stopping responding to someone who is being too demanding if money has not changed hands (and I don't think anyone has any obligation at all to respond to an email or PM that is demanding right from first contact). "We" tell them to ask for all this information, but the truth is, you may or may not get it and not everyone who is looking to rent points is going to find an owner - there are more people looking to rent now than there are owners with points - at least around here. Owners have a responsibility to be trustworthy, but there is competition out there to be "good renter" as well. And that pays off in more than just this years rentals - there are a number of people on this board who rent points to the same people year after year and form a relationship.
Part of educating our renters is educating them that its a two way street - this isn't a case of 'the customer is always right' and owners need to bend over backwards for the renters. Some owners may be in a really tight spot and willing to do so - but most who post points available get far more response than they have points, and most owners seem to be cruising the points wanted listings and selectively responding.
While you are certainly welcome to treat potential renters as you wish, I will continue to urge them to get references (these do NOT need to be rental references - there are many ways to provide a personal reference.
Any suggestions on other personal references to use if you don't have a rental history? Everytime I have to put a reference down on a form of some kind like a bank loan, I just give the names of some colleagues at work who can verify (if asked, which they never are) that I am a great person with no apparent gambling or drug problems. What use would such a reference be to a potential renter? I am probably not thinking enough outside the box, but some specific suggestions might be helpful for potential renters to request.
Thanks -- Suzanne
The "personal reference" comment was directed at the suggestion in this thread that those members who don't have a "business" of renting points won't have any references to offer. Obviously, the best reference would be from someone who has rented from a member in the past, but lacking that ANY personal reference would help. As you mention, no one has checked on your reference in the past - then shame on them, at least you provided them with a reference.
My point in initiating this thread was that almost every one of those renters who has reported a problem with their rental had ignored the general advice offered on the DIS for years. In most cases, it appeared that they were blinded by a "good" deal on a reservation and just gladly sent money to a complete stranger and then found themselves without a reservation. All of the suggestions made are an attempt to urge renters to take some form of pre-emptive action to protect themselves. If all of these suggestions were followed , is it possible that someone could still be taken? - absolutely!!
However, if all of these steps are followed the likelyhood that the renter will find someone trustworthy will be greatly increased, IMO.
Above all, the best advice that may be provided to anyone wanting to rent a reservation from a DVC member would be - Caveat Emptor - Buyer Beware.