IMO - Class has everything to do with the person and nothing to do with money. I've seen as much bad behavior at moderates and deluxes as I have at the value resorts. Seen a lot of super nice folks too. I think the level of bad behavior your apt to see really depends more on the time of year and crowd levels when you visit Disney. Here's my take on the resorts.
We've stayed at POP, ASSports & ASMovies - the buildings are spaced closer together, there are, at times, are tour groups and there are many families with young kids. Yes, at times, the resort seems a little noisy but nothing out of control. Disney theming all the way.
Have also stayed at Contemporary and Wilderness Lodge. These can also get noisy and seem busy with people because of interior corridors and also many visitors from other resorts for dining, sightseeing, etc.. I particularly felt this way at Contemporary.
Also stayed at POR and CSR. To me the moderate resorts are the most spread out among all of the Disney resorts and for that reason seem to be the most quiet and relaxing. POR tends to see some tour groups as well.
IMO, all of the pool areas, lobbies and food courts at every resort have a tendency to be noisy and busy which is logical as those areas are where people are congregating.
To me, all of the food courts have nice selections, bussing is no better or worse at any of the resorts, we were able to find our own quiet areas at each place and we've had wonderful
Disney vacations at each and every one of them.
It sounds to me like you've had a rough year and are looking to re-group with your family and recapture some Disney magic. I think you will be able to do that no matter where you stay. I hope you and your family have a wonderful and magical vacation and I wish you all good things in the coming years. Have a wonderful trip.
