TammiMcMan
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We’ve actually done big family trips a few times. My sister and her family stay at the Fort and me and my kids with their spouses have done a two bedroom at OKV and last year we stayed at an Airbnb close to Disney. We’ve learned from the trips that while we can all share the amenities of the living room, kitchen, etc, each family unit definitely must have their own bedroom. Hence the reason I was looking at GF grand villa specifically as that would give each one their own room within the unit. The accommodations are a gift from my husband and I to the kids, so we aren’t worried about someone having to back out.Booking a few rooms is my general recommendation even to owners. A Grand Villa can be a lot of togetherness, especially once you get more than three adult couples and kids. We've done it a few times - once with just our nuclear family of four (a family trip was planned, but there was a death in the family, and it ended up being just us), once with friends and then my youngest who was sixteen at the time and a friend (so six of us). But when I booked my big family trip of ten of us, we did two two bedrooms - one for my family of four (with plans to add my sister and a guest if she changed her mind and chose to come) and one for my other sister/brother in law and two kids and my parents - her kids were young, so my parents were there to help. Spending a week in a room with my brother in law is not vacation. Spending a week watching other people parent there kids in close quarters drives me batty (and it isn't that I'm a perfect parent).
Also remember that the more people involved, the more likely plans will change. Make sure you aren't holding the bag on expensive and non-refundable DVC reservations to have someone cancel due to health/finances/other commitments. In addition to the trip we took with four of us in a Grand Villa due to my brother in law passing, we had to postpone the other trip for nearly three years while my sister had a baby/got cancer/went through chemo/ and then had recovered enough for a trip. Some people on the board haven't been so "lucky" with excuses - their guests have just flaked out.
I’ll come up with a few plans of trying to book multiple one or two bedrooms if that’s easier or just go with multiple resort rooms. Maybe look at club level which would give us a nice lounge to relax in if the littles need a nap or an earlier bedtime.
Appreciate you sharing your experience and giving me some food for thought
