I didn't see the actual Oprah show, but I did catch "Oprah, after the Show" on the Oxygen channel. They had all the same people on there and there was a lot of laid back discussion going on.
Not sure who everyone is that you guys are talking about, but the lady with 2 little boys sitting in the audience (she was maybe 30's with long blondish hair and hubby was thin with dark hair) had an eye opener. Oprah was asking everyone if they learned anything and it they would do it again. When she got to the kids, the little boy said "yes, he loved it", She asked him why and he said "because when so and so was here, we had a family dinner every night and she was there every single day we came home." It was really sad...
Oprah asked everyone if they thought they were portrayed accurately in the show and most said no, but some said sort of . I am assuming that the 3 girls that are being talked about are the girls who had the dairyfarmer mom come into the house. They all agreed that it probably wasn't completely acurate...that yes, they were spoiled and can be brats, but that there is more to them and to the relationship they had with the other mom. It was very interesting.
On the actual show, did they show the family who had 25 pets and the mom that was a clean fanatic swap?