Thanks for the info..
BOBCAT: About how long do you drive the first day, then? Mapquest has those locations at around 13 hours. I don't think we will be able to make it quite that far with a 3 year-old.
We didn't want to do more than a 10 hour day. Rockhill and Savannah look like good options. We'll just stop for lunch and bathroom breaks and eat dinner wherever we stop. Maybe we will get the energy to go further, but we aren't early risers, so I would bet we won't leave until 9am. My DH is a Corporal with Franklin Co. Sheriff's and works 3rds (so sleeps all day 6 days a week) and I am a SAHM and my DD and I normally get up around 9am each day.
I actually would rather drive then fly. I like being able to pack lots more and not worry about getting a car there. I also hate the worries of missing a plane, being bumped, lugging a car seat around,etc. Now if we do other trips to WDW in the future, we may fly, especially if there are rates that good, but not this time.