WendyinMaryland
Earning My Ears
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- Aug 31, 2008
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My son has a severe peanut allergy. There is a huge difference between one or two people eating peanut butter on a plane because they have brought it, and an ENTIRE PLANEFUL of people opening a bag all at once. My son did react once because of other people eating peanut butter, and no one touched him. He was OK, because I gave him his Benadryl. While I know that peanut butter can not be banned, I do appreciate airlines that do not serve it in en-masse ... I think that is a reasonable compromise.
When my son was born, and we found out about his allergy, I became much more aware of the presence of food ...... people walk around with food and eat constantly. We are a nation of on-the-move eaters. I went to my daughter's ballet recital, in a nice theatre, and the kid next to me broke out a bag of peanut M&M's and made a huge mess eating them. Quite frankly, allergies or not, people have become rude with food, period. It used to be considered impolite to eat in front of other people, and people did not snack so much ... they actually ate meals at a table. Again, until I had my son, I might have thought it was as simple as just avoiding planes ... but as my recital experience shows, food is everywhere. I do what I can to make him safe.
Personally, even before my son was born, I think peanut butter is way to pungent smelling of a food for close quarters. Just like I would not microwave certain seafood dishes at work because of the odor.
And yes, there are more allergic people than before. That does not mean it is bogus. The peanut has changed drastically over time ... not in taste, but in the genetic engineering of the seed to give it economically advantageous properties, such as a bigger harvest or the ability to store the peanuts longer before they are processed. It is not the same peanut that existed years ago.
We have other allergies in our family, too. But, most other foods are not anaphylaxic unless you personally ingest them. Peanuts, with their oil and their dust, are simply different. My son and husband are allergic to eggs, but I can sit right next to them and eat eggs with no problem. I would never do that with peanut butter.
Anyway, I did not mean to write an essay. This is an issue that is really easy to oversimplify ..... until it happens to you.
When my son was born, and we found out about his allergy, I became much more aware of the presence of food ...... people walk around with food and eat constantly. We are a nation of on-the-move eaters. I went to my daughter's ballet recital, in a nice theatre, and the kid next to me broke out a bag of peanut M&M's and made a huge mess eating them. Quite frankly, allergies or not, people have become rude with food, period. It used to be considered impolite to eat in front of other people, and people did not snack so much ... they actually ate meals at a table. Again, until I had my son, I might have thought it was as simple as just avoiding planes ... but as my recital experience shows, food is everywhere. I do what I can to make him safe.
Personally, even before my son was born, I think peanut butter is way to pungent smelling of a food for close quarters. Just like I would not microwave certain seafood dishes at work because of the odor.
And yes, there are more allergic people than before. That does not mean it is bogus. The peanut has changed drastically over time ... not in taste, but in the genetic engineering of the seed to give it economically advantageous properties, such as a bigger harvest or the ability to store the peanuts longer before they are processed. It is not the same peanut that existed years ago.
We have other allergies in our family, too. But, most other foods are not anaphylaxic unless you personally ingest them. Peanuts, with their oil and their dust, are simply different. My son and husband are allergic to eggs, but I can sit right next to them and eat eggs with no problem. I would never do that with peanut butter.
Anyway, I did not mean to write an essay. This is an issue that is really easy to oversimplify ..... until it happens to you.