As I said, we have used one of the sets once in 15 years...
I really don't think my son would care... we are not very formal people and live in a small town in rural NC.
I think he would appreciate the memories of a FABULOUS vacation more than a set of silver that stays in a box. He was 3 when my dear mother-in-law and granny Kat passed away.
I am laughing because dear sweet Marilyn would have said, "Take the money and RUN"!!!!